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| Author: | thinhman [ Wed Oct 26, 2011 5:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | I feel like she's just wayyy too out of my league. |
So, I'm a freshman in college. I joined the cheerleading team like, 2 months ago. I have this really big crush on one of the cheerleaders, and I've been way too shy to do anything. This is weird because I usually do not have this problems around girls. I can always speak my mind, and if I like a girl, then I'll tell her. It's just this one cheer leader makes me really shy. Like, when we have practice, I talk to her like normal and we're really chill. I haven't had the guts to even ask her to hang out yet. :/ I usually feel like she's way out of my league. First of all, she's a cheerleader. She's really good at all of it too. She's a sophmore, and I'm just a freshman. She used to be in the varsity diving and soccor team in high school. She's really popular, and knows pretty much everyone on campus. There are tons of guys who are athletes that are into her (I don't know why she'd like me more than them). She's in a sorority and a bunch of clubs. She's really active in the college. Everyone loves her. Not like, the I-Want-To-Marry-You type love, but how girls say they love eachother. I'm totally opposite. I smalltalk with everyone on campus. I'm not very athletic. I workout and I think I'm strong, but I don't have a sixpack or anything. I have 1 or 2 friends which regularly hang out with. I've never been to a party. Also, th last thing that screws with me the most is my acne. I have quite a bit of acne, and I always feel like no one would like me because of it. Like, we're both in two totally different leagues. Should I just not try? |
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| Author: | P-Style [ Wed Oct 26, 2011 6:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I feel like she's just wayyy too out of my league. |
Quote: Like, we're both in two totally different leagues. Should I just not try?
If you want a proper shot at her? Yes.Do not throw your cards on the table and forget her until you've stepped up your game by 500% and created a social circle. In films popular girls hook up with average guys. In reality they don't. |
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| Author: | Olivier [ Wed Oct 26, 2011 8:28 am ] |
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Yes radicallly improve your social circle. Be the name everyone must mention....in a positive way :p I try to talk to one new person every day during college, sometimes we get to name exchange sometimes we don't. Some of them invite me to parties or to come sit with them during college to meet their friends. In your case make it 2 a day Do you want to convey social proof in college? Remember everyone's name you meet, that's 2 a day, and greet them everytime you see them: Hey [Name] After a month you know over 50 people, other people won't know how well you know them. And most people you greet are just happy someone is saying their name as well. Win-Win situation. Hang out with some of the other cheerleaders, and accidentically leave shit at their places(not actually feces, just some old scarf, sweater or whatever) and have them return it, before practice. Hope she sees it and she will start to wonder;) Also either get rid of your fear of being rejected because of the acnea or get rid of the acnea at all. I have no clue how to do either but I am fairly certain there are professionals who do : docters, people working in the drug store, dieticians .... one them has to have a way to get rid of your acnea for you? Also work on your inner convidence, if you are the self help kind of guy, read some books....if not, do some martial arts.....nothing says confidence more than the inner voice thinking: Mister Amog, I can kick your ass royally, but I'm against violence, so I'm going to let you walk away:P Treat yourself while working on all of this, get a new haircut, some fancy new clothes that fit |
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| Author: | Olivier [ Wed Oct 26, 2011 11:35 am ] |
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Oh and before I forget, one last thing: "That woman was sexy...Out of your league? Son. Let women figure out why they won't screw you, don't do it for them." - Justin Halpern (Shit my dad says) |
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