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Author:  DiTraniello [ Wed Oct 26, 2011 12:07 am ]
Post subject:  #close is no problem, but she is ignoring text messages
Last weekend I went 3 days to the bar/club, I got phone numbers from three girls.
The number close was pretty easy each time but I might closed to fast (after 2 min) next day I sent a text message to the three girls to ask how they are doing and how their weekend was. After a couple of text messages they just kinda ignored me.
Could anyone help me with this, because this happens to me every time, thank you.
Author:  bansario [ Wed Oct 26, 2011 12:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: #close is no problem, but she is ignoring text messages
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Last weekend I went 3 days to the bar/club, I got phone numbers from three girls.
The number close was pretty easy each time but I might closed to fast (after 2 min) next day I sent a text message to the three girls to ask how they are doing and how their weekend was. After a couple of text messages they just kinda ignored me.
Could anyone help me with this, because this happens to me every time, thank you.
Like you said, too fast and without building any comfort with them. Get the number, chat her up a bit more, and then leave the scene with an excuse that at least sounds reasonable.

If comfort is not built, she might feel buyers remorse.

Also, when you text a girl, try not to sound needy or too desperate about talking to them. Even if they respond right away, take your time to respond back. Always remember that you are a busy person with a lot of cool stuff going on in your life, so spending too much time texting is not a priority. This is the kind of mindset you should have in order to convey confidence and mystery over text messages.

So, in summary:
1- Build comfort and rapport by not exiting the initial encounter too quick, especially after you get the number.

2- Suggest fun things to do (a date) when you first meet women. Make the process of getting the number a way of communication in order for the two of you to go out later on. In other words, "you need the number in order to make plans for a date" (that's the attitude).

3- Show more confidence and your fun side when you text a woman for the first time. Instead of saying "Hi, how are you?" come up with more interesting messages like "Hey, it's (your name), the most interesting person you've met on a Thursday night, EVER! :) haha" - If she doesn't respond in a positive way to a message like that, then you get an idea of what kind of person you're dealing with.
Author:  Dunkmeister [ Wed Oct 26, 2011 12:24 am ]
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Theyre pretty much flakey numbers, means that they gave you their number not because they were into you that much. Its easier for a girl to give you her number than not answer than to create social awkwardness when she just says no. Its nothing wrong with you, maybe you did close too quickly (Flakey numbers happen a lot) but I came across something definitely incredible that was shown by my wing Bitch. It pretty much gave me the key to no more flakey numbers, I saw Dj Fuji explaining it, its just as you wouldthen lets say number close at the time, you make up a random story like Hey so next weekend me and my friends are going to the Skrillex after party and we are still looking for people to come with us. Now the tricky part is, if she answers by a casual cool or nothing like big excitement over it, your job isnt done, this is when you get a flakey number, you can keep working on some more attraction, now on the other hand, if she says like Oh My god thats so cool I wish I could come, then you know she would answer back (You might wanna try an example that would happen for real like just a casual house party instead of a skrillex after party). So thats it, to avoid flakey number, you gotta work this little routine and judge if your ready to get her number or if you should work on it a little more. Hope this helps a bit
Author:  DiTraniello [ Wed Oct 26, 2011 12:44 am ]
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Thank you so much guys, this has really helped me. I always do quick number closes because I was afraid of making mistakes in the time between opening and closing. Next weekend I will definitely use your advice, thank you!
Author:  GetFamiliar [ Wed Oct 26, 2011 2:18 am ]
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I'll be sure to put some of these strategies into play, as well. Thanks, guys.
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