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| Author: | MagicCaveman [ Mon Oct 24, 2011 12:55 am ] |
| Post subject: | Staying attractive to a girl you already have.. |
Any suggestions? Think this is the line I need to go down. Everytime I have a girl i feel as though I bag her a few times then lose her. Any ideas guys? much apprectiated. |
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| Author: | Tidy [ Mon Oct 24, 2011 2:06 am ] |
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I'm not really sure what you mean? You're on about a relationship? |
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| Author: | MagicCaveman [ Mon Oct 24, 2011 2:56 am ] |
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not really. Like every time i meet a girl shes immidiatly interested, i end up having sex with her... meet up again, and then it just dies. Even when i like the girl as well. Now part of game imo is eventually meeting someone. But i don't know exactly what i do wrong but at first girls are attracted to me being cocky, cheeky, touchy with them... and my confidence.... after a couple of weeks they seam to lose interest. How do i convert this into possible relationship? |
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| Author: | Aladdin [ Mon Oct 24, 2011 3:01 am ] |
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I have a similar problem |
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| Author: | MagicCaveman [ Mon Oct 24, 2011 12:05 pm ] |
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I try balancing it, but im either to clinging or if i dont act like i give a shit they go off with someone else. |
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| Author: | Snake Doctor [ Mon Oct 24, 2011 12:57 pm ] |
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Confidences and cocky goes a long way. It really pays of in the beginning to build attraction and it’s also good to maintain but you need more than that. Maybe you are striking an impression of a player, of course girls like that, because every girl wants to tame that type of boy, but if you constantly give, they are going to start worrying (at least the girlfriends material who are looking for boyfriend) and they will start talking about you with there friends and they will going to give shitty advices(dump him you are going to suffer, he is a player). So I would advice After you have sex you need to talk about you, and be more human. Give her genuinely compliment. Look for subtle hints if she is looking for a boyfriend; show her you are vulnerable too. Invite her too party with your friends. Be interesting , who haves a hobby and a life plan. If she dump you because of your neediness. its easy. You showed her something in the begin , and then you go completely different person a player to afc in no time. Loss of attraction. I may be wrong but the most common reason is the second I gave to you. You probably become AFC try to please her, and she loses the atraction, because you showed her something and in following weeks you show her your true colors Since you were so vague this is the best I can do. |
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| Author: | MagicCaveman [ Mon Oct 24, 2011 3:33 pm ] |
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Well when i was acting like a player she wanted me i guess. obviously, cos i seem to get any girl this way. And my kino is amazing, everytime i see her a bit of kino and she wants sex. I've been really nice to her the last couple of weeks and turned a one night stand into dating, but when we are together its good. When we are out she will have her eyes on my constantly... and when i say im going to the toilet... she will playfully push me away, and then have her eyes fixed on where i go. then last night when i went up to see her, we kissed, then i just said "well i suppose i better be going" ... then she playfully pushed me out..... i was hoping she wud be like " o well you can stay if you dont have to go..." but she never said it.... maybe shes trying to suttly play me? hmmmm when we sleep with each other we are in bed for hours and i get the feeling she wants me, but i feel as tho im boring unless i drink.... |
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| Author: | Don Draper [ Mon Oct 24, 2011 4:26 pm ] |
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Well, here's what I do, in such situations. The basic strategy to use is that you have to continuously keep the interest level on her end. Show her different sides of you, if you're cocky for a while, become vulnerable on some night, if you're uptight on some days, be a dork on the others... Basically, she will be amazed at the depth you project and you will become a challenge to her. She will want to figure you out and try to know everything about you. Share stories with her, get her to share her stories, talk about all kinds of things, yes, even the stupid ones. One night I just spent talking to this girl about how romantic comedies are giving women and men wrong ideas. That debate went on for 4 hours. My point is, there is no shortage of things to discuss. Find them. Ask open ended questions, give her vague replies sometimes, on some days be quiet, brash on the others. Variation is the key to interest. All the best. |
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| Author: | MagicCaveman [ Mon Oct 24, 2011 7:39 pm ] |
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That's a good idea. today i didnt talk to her and just text her saying hope you have a good night, as she is going out. this is doing my head in, f and c is so much easier! |
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