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Author:  Jimbo Slice [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 8:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Being obvious
There is this girl I have been talking to for a while I feel she is attracted to me,I'm sick of pussy footing around and being interrupted by her friends.

I rather be rejected than be LJBF zoned, What about coming out and being obvious not something lame and AFC like ''I like you'' but something direct and sexual.

Thoughts?
Author:  Chai [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 8:43 pm ]
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If she feels attracted to you then she's already done most
of the work for you in terms of where you are now.
If you want to gain respect from her friends you
must DHV and show some dominance by
winning over her friends so they can
give you some mutual respect
in order to win over their
friend you are trying
to get with.

Just saying "I like you" is AFC man I've done that
and it didn't get me anywhere (I did it even
worse actually. A while a back I was
friends with this really attractive
girl through one of my mates
and I blatantly told her
"please god tell me
you are single?" The
rest is history and not in a good way dude)
My point is, don't come off as another AFC to her...
Be someone who is different, unique and 10x better
than the next bloke or the previous bloke that is
going to try with her.

I cant help you with the sexual
part but I'm sure one of the
other forum gents will
be able to help you
in that department.
Hope that helps!
Author:  stealthhawk [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 10:25 pm ]
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first off chai why you keep using return lines? annoying to read and looks like a poem..

jimbo invite her out somewhere her friends arent. if shes attracted and comfortable with you she will come out regardless. 'i like you' is direct and is fine if used correctly.
Author:  Jimbo Slice [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 11:32 pm ]
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invite her out somewhere her friends arent. if shes attracted and comfortable with you she will come out regardless. 'i like you' is direct and is fine if used correctly.
That's the thing she not really the dating type and I'm not into dating,I'll only date a girl I've kissed before plus she's in college miles away during the week.

I see her every weekend I go out,I want to isolate her and make it obvious that I'm interested so she won't go running off with her friends,the last time I isolated her one of her friends came up and took her away (probably jealousy),the bar was fairly empty that time, so if I isolate her and take her to a different part of the bar her friends can't find her so I'll have enough time.

If I come out with something sexually direct she can say no and then I'll next her, If she accepts it it's on,I'll know wheater she likes me or not either way.
Author:  P-Style [ Mon Oct 24, 2011 6:22 am ]
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Be obviously sexist. But don't mention her. As she agrees to the sexual things you say, then you can get to the point where you say you want to do her.
Author:  stealthhawk [ Mon Oct 24, 2011 6:55 am ]
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When I said invite I didn't mean as a date. I would invite her out to a movie I really wanted to see, be it at yours, hers, or cinema. Could just invite her or take her another bar/ club/ pub. Tell her friends where you going though. If you want to be direct deal with the problem (friends) by telling her friends in front of her that "I like x are you ok with that?".
Author:  Jimbo Slice [ Mon Oct 24, 2011 3:15 pm ]
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Quote:
She be obviously sexist. But don't mention her. As she agrees to the sexual things you say, then you can get to the point where you say you want to do her.
I have no idea what you're saying.
Author:  P-Style [ Mon Oct 24, 2011 3:22 pm ]
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I don't understand either :/ No I corrected the original post.
If you want to move on be direct. Ask her out or be obviously sexist.
Author:  Jimbo Slice [ Mon Oct 24, 2011 3:24 pm ]
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When I said invite I didn't mean as a date. I would invite her out to a movie I really wanted to see, be it at yours, hers, or cinema. Could just invite her or take her another bar/ club/ pub. Tell her friends where you going though. If you want to be direct deal with the problem (friends) by telling her friends in front of her that "I like x are you ok with that?".
Anything outside of night game I don't really like,I know I'm limiting my options but anything like that would be thought of as a date where I'm from.

I'll have no problem isolating her in the bar for a fact,I'm wondering if it's a good idea to come straight out with it and say something sexual before or does it ruin the mystery.

I want a good line to just whisper in her ear before I isolate her,so she knows we're not going for a friendly chat.

Also we're both young I'm 18 and she nearly 18 so we don't have our own places.
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