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Author:  LexMajor [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 11:55 am ]
Post subject:  Kiss close fail - NEED OPINION
So on Thursday I tried to kiss close this HB8 at a bar. Things were going good I already had her number. I told her around midnight that I was gonna head out. She reached in with a big huge pussy hug (you know the kind where she puts her pussy right up on you...) and tried to kiss me on the cheek. I tried to get the intercept with a 2 point conversion but she just deflected with her cheek.


She said "That's for next time"

Did I get blown out or is she just playing a game on her side?

I'll be giving her a call tonight (Sunday) to set something up with her for Wednesday evening.
Author:  Cointoss [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 12:29 pm ]
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:/ man.

Not every person likes slobbering all over relative strangers they just met in a bar no matter how attracted they may be. Contrary to what some material suggests, most people with developed intelligence (that is people with at least an IQ over 100 or something, which is still only about half the girls you will meet if they are pure random) are not animals/instinctive but primarily rational. Thus extreme instinctive attraction will be overruled by the rational desire not to be seen as loose, which is a good thing imo. Unless she's not one of those people it wasn't a blowout but an IOI/invitation if anything.

So this was on thursday? Good luck, if it doesn't work out you may not want to wait half a lifetime next time.
Author:  bansario [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 12:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Kiss close fail - NEED OPINION
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So on Thursday I tried to kiss close this HB8 at a bar. Things were going good I already had her number. I told her around midnight that I was gonna head out. She reached in with a big huge pussy hug (you know the kind where she puts her pussy right up on you...) and tried to kiss me on the cheek. I tried to get the intercept with a 2 point conversion but she just deflected with her cheek.


She said "That's for next time"

Did I get blown out or is she just playing a game on her side?

I'll be giving her a call tonight (Sunday) to set something up with her for Wednesday evening.
You are not necessarily blown out. It may not have been the best moment for HER to make out with you. Who knows...

Next time, make sure you initiate the "good-bye" routine. Ask for a big hug (hug her), then ask for a kiss. Now, you have a split second to make this work. When you ask for it, you have to be facing her directly and if she doesn't move immediately to your "request" then simply go for it. JUST GO FOR IT :)

Basically you don't let them think too much. Also, do not make this a long and passionate kiss unless you see that she wants to.

Text her today (Sunday) and let the games begin...
Author:  LexMajor [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 12:37 pm ]
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:/ man.


So this was on thursday? Good luck, if it doesn't work out you may not want to wait half a lifetime next time.

Half a lifetime? What do you mean?
Author:  Cointoss [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 12:43 pm ]
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:/ man.


So this was on thursday? Good luck, if it doesn't work out you may not want to wait half a lifetime next time.

Half a lifetime? What do you mean?
Sorry, that is just my tendency to exagerate. What I meant was that if you meet a girl who says she is interested in making out with you next time should be contacted the next day (imo) because she is likely attracted and that will fade exponentially as time passes.

By the way, every girl in the world knows by now that many men have some sort of "rule" to not call for like a few days. They know it's most likely not because you're genuinely busy and not giving it any thought but because you're following some idea. So now, being ahead of the crowd is texting the very same night you met the girl (imo). Then when the herd catches on to doing that too much, you can go back to waiting 4 days again.

"I subscribe to the law of contrary public opinion... If everyone thinks one thing, then I say, bet the other way..." - Props to whoever knows where this is from ;)
Author:  LexMajor [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 12:55 pm ]
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"I subscribe to the law of contrary public opinion... If everyone thinks one thing, then I say, bet the other way..." -
Mista Roma did have something right. I get what you're saying about every other guy waiting a few days. Or at least "being supposed to".... Most of them will end up drunk texting them later that night or in the morning.


She knows I was working the past 2 nights.

So a set up for Wednesday is good right? Or should I try for a Monday night meet (this one works better with the kid's schedule)
Author:  Cointoss [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 1:13 pm ]
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"I subscribe to the law of contrary public opinion... If everyone thinks one thing, then I say, bet the other way..." -
Mista Roma did have something right. I get what you're saying about every other guy waiting a few days. Or at least "being supposed to".... Most of them will end up drunk texting them later that night or in the morning.


She knows I was working the past 2 nights.

So a set up for Wednesday is good right? Or should I try for a Monday night meet (this one works better with the kid's schedule)
My man :D I don't know that most guys do as you say they do. And there's a difference between a lame drunken text and a neatly produced one... I think one can tell the difference. Either way if you put it like that, you can't really win can you?

So I didn't know that she knew you were working or something about taking care of a kid (That's what you meant right?). You still could've texted her earlier but maybe she remembers you cos you said you wouldn't have time prior. Just pick the time you want it to be, the whole "would it seem weird if I say that or this day" stuff really astonishes me sometimes. I mean, you have some idea of when you want to meet up and you're going to suggest it and then she is going to say yes or no depending on her schedule and willingness. I don't see what thought needs to be given to it further.
Author:  LexMajor [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 1:34 pm ]
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Cool man cheers.


To be clear I didn't think this was a complete fail... but I wanted to get another opinion on this.


The number close for this girl I thought was pretty good though.... She brought up the Shania Twain stalker asking my opinion. I told her I would never chase a girl like that. I have more self respect. She looked down and gave me the flirty look over the shoulder thing and said that she likes to be pursued. I then told her I don't chase LIKE THAT guy. But that I will pursue when I see something I like. At this point I handed her my phone and Told her to write in her number. Then I finished my smoke a disappeared to another level of the bar for a while. She saw me out having a smoke again later and she said she was looking for me all over.


I think that the deflection might have been because she didn't want to seem like a "club whore"
Author:  0uch [ Mon Oct 24, 2011 9:12 am ]
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Why are you concern with kiss close? From reading, sounds like you could have slept with her that night.

Numbers are always gonna be more solid if you pull. Even if you don't sleep with the girl.
Author:  LexMajor [ Tue Oct 25, 2011 12:01 am ]
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Why are you concern with kiss close? From reading, sounds like you could have slept with her that night.

Numbers are always gonna be more solid if you pull. Even if you don't sleep with the girl.
What do you mean pull?
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