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| Author: | mips [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 12:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Did I misinterpret their interests in me? |
Ok, so after 18 years of not really interacting with girls, a lot of weird stuff just occurred in the past week. I will explain these stories in a chronological order. First off, in my English class (@ Uni not high school) we were assigned to work in groups. As i moved my seat towards the group one of the girls said "Oh, you're in our group to me". Initially I thought it was weird that someone would say that but I carried on. Then as our group was analyzing the text we made eye contact the whole time as we talked about the story. Now, this girl was like an 8/10 and i thought she was way out of my league. At the end of the class she left, but I had to stay a little late to pick up a quiz from my teacher. I then thought to myself, "oh I won't see her anymore she probably left for the day". But instead as soon as i walked out she was waiting for me and we walked outside just talking about the literature. However, i had to end the conversation soon because we were headed in separate directions. I thought that the next time we had class she would talk to me again, but this was not the case. Was she offended that i left, or was she able to sense a little awkwardness and/or nervousness from me when we were talking alone? Ok, so the next story takes place at a party in my house. Once again there was a girl there who i thought i would never talk to (8/10). A few drinks later we would make eye contact at every conversation. She praised my beer pong skills, and would constantly ask for a high five after agreeing on things (certain movie interests). Then however, she commented on the clothes I wear, and we both found out we were wearing the same clothing company. I asked her if she wanted to go to my room and see my wardrobe and she said yes. Now, after this it was just her and I alone in my room and I only proceeded to show her my clothes, nothing else. Did I pass up on a lay unknowingly? Ok, and now the best for last. In the same aforementioned English Class, IMO the hottest girl in the class like 9+/10 made eye contact with me. I just assumed this was something accidental. Next however, i exited the class and it was pouring outside. She was trailing me and asked if I wanted to step under her umbrella too. Instinctively I initially wanted to decline but instead I went for it. Just like the first story, this one ended the same way. We talked just about umbrellas and how I should purchase one. Then i had to depart without saying i had class. I just said "Well, I have to go this way". In addition I didn't really stand right next to her under the umbrella because I felt like it'd of been weird for her to have a stranger make physical contact so soon. Finally, like the first girl, this one did not talk to me afterwards in class the next day. Did she think I was being weird or awkward? Or was she mad that I didn't do anything, if in fact she wanted something. Or did she sense my inexperience passing up on a girl that hot? Or was it simply that she thinks I was not attracted to her because I didn't respond greatly? Overall, I need to know if I was being naive about these situations, and if I've already screwed up beyond repair with any of the girls above. Thanks in advance for the advice! |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 6:49 am ] |
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start kissing girls and trying to have sex with them, also ask them out trying to figure out if a girl wants to have sex with you, or over analyzing situation forever is retarded, the best way to find out if a girl wants to have sex with you, is to try to have sex with her GOOD LUCK |
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| Author: | Hakuna [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 7:10 am ] |
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Unless you plan on losing your virginity posthumously, you need to start learning how to talk to girls. "The Game" by Neil Strauss is usually a good start |
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| Author: | P-Style [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 11:10 am ] |
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Those were excellent opportunities to atleast exchange numbers. When in your room you could've done some light supportive kino to check her interest. |
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| Author: | mips [ Tue Oct 25, 2011 5:35 am ] |
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alright makes sense, but did i fuck up beyond repair with any of the girls by not advancing initially? If not, what else can i do to escalate things? Keep in mind these are college girls, also what can i say to the girls in my english class (not a lecture but rather a class with 20 kids)? Thanks! |
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| Author: | stealthhawk [ Tue Oct 25, 2011 6:52 am ] |
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The one that was in your room ye if you pulled the trigger on that one it might have happened. Other two sounds like you might been a bit abrupt making them think your not interested. Plus sounds like you was running out of conversation. Hope that helped a bit. |
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