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Author:  Bradbrad [ Sat Oct 22, 2011 12:04 pm ]
Post subject:  How to build social value?

Hi all,

There are still some things unclear to me in building social value in a social venue. I understand that bringing women to a venue is not stupid, but I find it more convenient to make 'friends' on the spot.

You really want that non-targets find you attractive, but you do not want to show too much interest . In addition, you also want to show enough interest to your target, but not too much so you get pissed off non-targets. Finally, if you talk with your target, you want the non-targets sufficiently satisfied, so that they do not get pissed.

I already use "approach invitations" and I always speak to groups with 'you'. Wave often to the non-targets when I'm talking with the target to them to keep them happy. In addition, I try to see where the target look around to know what attracts them.

Problems that I encountered are:
- I find it difficult to 'get noticed'. (Should i go directly at the HB10 and if it does not quite succeed, go talk to others first?)
- How do I get enough attraction of the non-targets but without showing too much interest?
- What 'attraction material' (teases / escalation / sexual inuendo) should I apply?

So I'm especially looking for body language stuff, but additional tips are useful because I'm probably overlooking something.

Thanks

Author:  Corto [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 8:38 am ]
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Hi !
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You really want that non-targets find you attractive.
Fasle we want others girls find you pleasing and friendly. Then they won't cock block when you pick up a target in their group. And only then you can transforme others girls in friend !
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I find it difficult to 'get noticed'. (Should i go directly at the HB10 and if it does not quite succeed, go talk to others first?)
Always talk to others first ! Target 'll be surprise you pass over her and will be more receptive after.
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How do I get enough attraction of the non-targets but without showing too much interest ?
No attraction for other just be plaising, like if you speak to co-worker you don't know. Then they accepte you and you can speak like a friend. Thus you are no attractive, you are friend.
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What 'attraction material' (teases / escalation / sexual inuendo) should I apply?
You know goal is shut off target. Use what do you want. I m sure teases / kino escalation / sexual innuendo 'll be helpful. But the first think before you'll try them : you have to note IOIs.

IOI determines if a girl is attracted by yourself or not. Try every thing you want 'cose we only can learn by testing.

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