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| Author: | Century100 [ Sat Oct 22, 2011 12:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | How do you come across as mysterious? |
In order to attract women? What I've found lately is that by maintaining a dominant posture, while leaning back and talking less than the woman you are conversing with, and simultaneously giving strong eye contact - you can spark some pretty serious initial attraction just by conveying this sort of confidence. But how do you get her to view you as "mysterious" without dressing up like The Phantom? This question applies to broadcasting mystery to all women - be it first encounters to long term relationships. Thanks |
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| Author: | P-Style [ Sat Oct 22, 2011 2:13 am ] |
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Be cold and distant. Give a little and then let loose. It's all in your composure and the way you keep it. |
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| Author: | bansario [ Sat Oct 22, 2011 3:03 am ] |
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Have you seen how Malcolm X used to sit and be quiet when he was being asked questions? A finger touching his ear, the others touching his chin. Mysterious.... |
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| Author: | Century100 [ Sat Oct 22, 2011 4:01 am ] |
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What about if you tell the woman that you're into ghost hunting n shyt? Kidding lol my next question is: Can you be mysterious to someone who knows you already? And that Malcolm X thing isn't cool though, his hands just look awkward |
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| Author: | Tidy [ Sat Oct 22, 2011 5:00 am ] |
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Why would you want to seem mysterious? I don't understand how this is productive at all.. It just seems like you're trying to find some kind of persona that allows you to attract women while doing very little. I've really never understood where guys get this "looking mysterious to attract women" bullshit from. imo, best way to look mysterious is to sit on your own in the corner of a crowded club wearing a 3 piece suit, sunglasses, crocodile skin boots and reading the financial times claiming to be reading up on the current stock prices of swiss cheese. |
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| Author: | Century100 [ Sat Oct 22, 2011 9:28 am ] |
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I like it |
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| Author: | P-Style [ Sat Oct 22, 2011 9:54 am ] |
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Quote: Why would you want to seem mysterious? I don't understand how this is productive at all.. It just seems like you're trying to find some kind of persona that allows you to attract women while doing very little. I've really never understood where guys get this "looking mysterious to attract women" bullshit from.
Believe me, being percieved mysterious works magnetic to girls. Certainly with HB's who are used to being drooled on. It's hard practice to learn the techniques to be mysterious. The striding through a room, the right look, the tempo in which you do things. Everything's got to be paced down. It's basically the James Bond attitude in real life.An example: Last weekend we were with friends on a weekend (20 ppl of whom say seven women). As I enter the room everybody was allready sitting there. Someone mocks me. I remain unaffected, slowly look at him, look away from him and search for a spot. Within two minutes some girls starts talking she and her alleged friend aren't actually dating while continuously asking me questions, which I all direct to sex. Bam, she's digging all the way and I eject. Number two starts chatting with me (note the with me, I did not commence any conversation) I remain cold and a little arrogant. Number three and four started chatting the day after. Number five yesterday. Which means that of all seven only two haven't (yet?) been chatting with me. Which to me are excellent results. Since I've quit being a dancing monkey trying to hit on girls women call me a mystery man, charismatic, unpredictable and say that I can have whoever I want in the whole room. My success rate has skyrocketed. I still use humour as a gaming technique but I've dropped it massively. Fieldtest it for some weeks in a row and you'll feel the difference. |
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| Author: | Century100 [ Sat Oct 22, 2011 10:58 am ] |
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P-Style that's perfect - Thanks a lot. I really enjoy trying new "persona's" if you will, since I look at is literally as a game nowadays. And you've done a good job describing how to portray yourself in that manner. Cheers buddy |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Sat Oct 22, 2011 11:46 am ] |
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don't talk about yourself- keep them guessing |
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| Author: | Century100 [ Sat Oct 22, 2011 11:53 am ] |
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Another good tip actually, thanks |
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