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Author:  Samurai209 [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 9:55 am ]
Post subject:  Is it possible to have oneitis while dating multiple girls?
Pretty much what the question says. I'm currently dating/having sex with 2 girls, seeing them on a very consistant basis. I'm gaming other girls too but im pretty comfortable in where im at. Theres just this one other girl whos messing with my head. Im sure you guys have heard the story before, but basically I'm very attracted to her, and I'm not really getting anywhere. Shes giving off countless IOI's, but when I make a move she backs away. If I didnt know any better I would say she was a really nervous virgin or something.

Needless to say this is very frustrating to me. I have been involved in the pua community for around 2 years, and have been doing pretty well if I do say so myself.

Any of you guys ever experienced this? I think its probably an issue of wanting what you cant have but I'm not sure how to get over it. Any help would be greatly appreciated :)
Author:  Lodewijkp [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 10:35 am ]
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yeah

and it's totally inside your head...

you are trying to control something .. you want to know how they think ?

if a woman is giving countless IOI she probably gave you alot of opportunity windows in closing the deal.
Author:  Samurai209 [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 10:44 am ]
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Last time I made a move, we were sitting close to one another, her legs over mine, faces a few inches apart, staring into one anothers eyes. I look down at her lips and slowy lean in to kiss her, but as I do she turns her cheek slightly. I only get part of her lips but mostly her cheek.

I understand what you are saying though, sometimes you just think too much into things, trying to figure things out. Perhaps I am doing that too, I'm really not sure.
Author:  Screamz [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 10:48 am ]
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i have something similar with one girl. she gives me lots on ioi's, but when i ask her to go with me somewhere she backs away or gets angry. after some days she's nice and flirty again.
Author:  Lodewijkp [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 11:21 am ]
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ok then im going to give you guys a few options .. which one do you believe is true ? :

1. it's her issue.
2. it's your issue

choose...

it's your perspective of things ... im not saying there aren't any emotionally unhealthy and manipulative woman.
im just saying it's your perspective and it could be wrong ...

why do you chase her anyway ? why do you worry about shit that doesn't matter... a girl doesn't want t be kissed... so what ?
why are you making up this huge issue?
Author:  BuddhaMuscle [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 3:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is it possible to have oneitis while dating multiple girls?
Quote:
Pretty much what the question says. I'm currently dating/having sex with 2 girls, seeing them on a very consistant basis. I'm gaming other girls too but im pretty comfortable in where im at. Theres just this one other girl whos messing with my head. Im sure you guys have heard the story before, but basically I'm very attracted to her, and I'm not really getting anywhere. Shes giving off countless IOI's, but when I make a move she backs away. If I didnt know any better I would say she was a really nervous virgin or something.

Needless to say this is very frustrating to me. I have been involved in the pua community for around 2 years, and have been doing pretty well if I do say so myself.

Any of you guys ever experienced this? I think its probably an issue of wanting what you cant have but I'm not sure how to get over it. Any help would be greatly appreciated :)
C'est la vie. You want her man. It's even tougher if you can't get her. The oneitus seed has been planted
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