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| Author: | jay2011 [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 7:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | Help please after freeze out! |
Looking for a bit of advice on my previous post... (long story) Was with girl, then she fzoned me, then she wanted me/then she didnt..Got out of it a couple of moonths ago and she kissed me and said she wanted to give it a go..then 4 days later she said she didnt feel the same after i tried it on at her house as we hadnt has sex for about a year, so i thought im in! So I walked out her house calling her a C*nt and that's it, she sent me a message the next day saying i mean the world to her, but she just don't feel the same..I didn't reply and deleted her number/fbook.. So. I havn't spoken to that girl since (1 1/2 months ish) but shes been in my head constantly for the last two weeks..and i keep having the urge to contact her, i was fine previously but i guess i miss her now.. just don't know what to do, try an stay strong, or tell her i miss her..but i guess that will give her all the power again.. just really confused, i really want her thanks guys |
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| Author: | mad.genius [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 8:10 am ] |
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you want her? Go for it not going after what you want and resisting your urges an not Alpha. Its a beta trait. Alpha goes after what he wants. And even if you fail, you wont regreat it, and you wont have the confusion and regreat,"if i had tried, may be i could have gotten her" just dont state your feelings right away as you want to know her emotional state first and mirror that. Initiate contact in a neutral way, and then show a bit of interest,"i missed you" does she show interested in return? If sho you show a bit more. She doesnt show interest? Stop showing yours. You have to guide and lead her emotions. And once you both accept your feelings for each other, thats the time to take the next step forward that could be sex. Some times telling how you missed her and how special she is to you are exactly the things that a girl needs to know before having sex with you. Make her feel those two emotions |
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| Author: | jay2011 [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 6:15 pm ] |
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cool, cheers for the advise dude.. It helps and hopefully will lift a weight of my shoulders.. I just get concerned the fact this is like the 4th time this would of happend and ive walked out (again) saying thats it fuck you..then i'm coming running back? and she always had the power and i'm giving it back to her on a plate..I totally agree tho in the past when i've said ive missed her she's showed more interest.. But if you read my other posts it's fucked up.. cheers bud |
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| Author: | fieldmonster [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 6:22 pm ] |
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if she is willing to talk to you. You can fuck her 100%. |
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| Author: | jay2011 [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 11:18 pm ] |
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I would love that dude..but she said she didn't feel the same... or is that just in that moment or the fact i didnt come across well that night? It's been a year and a few months and she hasn't commited and like i say havn't had sex for a year since the last time something like this happend.. but then sometimes she seems attracted to me..hense, you don't kiss "your friends"..?? |
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| Author: | fieldmonster [ Thu Oct 20, 2011 5:24 am ] |
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Quote: I would love that dude..but she said she didn't feel the same...
i know whats going there and i have been in situations like this so i know how to get out of them. Pm me and we can solve your problem. I am not going to charge you for this neither i am going you to tell you to read blah blah. I dont like the idea of throwing away all of your techniques in front of all so we gonna work privately
or is that just in that moment or the fact i didnt come across well that night? It's been a year and a few months and she hasn't commited and like i say havn't had sex for a year since the last time something like this happend.. but then sometimes she seems attracted to me..hense, you don't kiss "your friends"..?? |
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