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Author:  omir89 [ Tue Oct 18, 2011 1:34 am ]
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Hey everyone, i met a very pretty girl friday night who lives next door to my best friend's apartment. I ended up walking her home from the bar, getting her number and kissing her. We spoke a bit through text messages yesterday but overall it was a pretty mundane conversation. Im really busy with school and probably can't see her until next weekend. Was wondering if you guys have any advice on how I should approach the situation? should i contact her again this week? and if so how should I go about it?

P.S one thing i forgot to mention was that earlier in the night we met, i was hanging out with one of her friends alone for about an hour and ended up getting her number. I dont know if she told her friend or not and how that would affect this situation. thanks in advance..
Author:  bansario [ Tue Oct 18, 2011 1:47 am ]
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Hey everyone, i met a very pretty girl friday night who lives next door to my best friend's apartment. I ended up walking her home from the bar, getting her number and kissing her. We spoke a bit through text messages yesterday but overall it was a pretty mundane conversation. Im really busy with school and probably can't see her until next weekend. Was wondering if you guys have any advice on how I should approach the situation? should i contact her again this week? and if so how should I go about it?

P.S one thing i forgot to mention was that earlier in the night we met, i was hanging out with one of her friends alone for about an hour and ended up getting her number. I dont know if she told her friend or not and how that would affect this situation. thanks in advance..
Have you considered seeing her during the week? You might be really busy, but I'm sure you can meet up for 2 hours somewhere. Waiting 2 weeks to see her again may actually play against you unless your game is good enough to keep attraction for that long through phone conversations.

By seeing her during the week, all the other questions don't need to be answered.

Oh and remember, you already talk to her. Don't make it weird and just invite her out without making a big deal out of it.

Good luck :)
Author:  PUAMonster [ Tue Oct 18, 2011 2:58 am ]
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Well if you think she's special, then ya definitely contact her. You don't want to keep her around waiting or else she's find someone else who seems more interested. Good luck man.
Author:  omir89 [ Tue Oct 18, 2011 3:24 am ]
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sorry about the misunderstanding, by next weekend i meant this upcoming weekend so just a few days from now. still i'm afraid that waiting this long without contacting her might be risky, so i was planning on at least texting her again at some point during the week before i call her to hangout during the weekend. any advice on how to go about texting her besides a simple "how are u?"
Author:  thedocta [ Tue Oct 18, 2011 3:50 am ]
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sorry about the misunderstanding, by next weekend i meant this upcoming weekend so just a few days from now. still i'm afraid that waiting this long without contacting her might be risky, so i was planning on at least texting her again at some point during the week before i call her to hangout during the weekend. any advice on how to go about texting her besides a simple "how are u?"
Best is if you can come up with some happy funny comment that relates back to your last conversation. For example I was just texting this girl who had a birthday recently who had been talking about how she doesn't want babies anytime soon during our last convo. So I texted her this:

"Happy birthday! feel any different? want lots of babies yet?"

This ended up leading into a really funny back and forth that went on for a while.
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