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Author:  JMan_01 [ Tue Oct 18, 2011 12:53 am ]
Post subject:  In an open relationship... need help picking up NEW women?
Hey guys, I'm in a long-term open relationship, and am struggling with HOW to broach the subject with the new women I'm meeting.

At what point in the interaction do I throw it on the table?

Not in the pick-up... not in the first 10 mins of attraction. It's a real quandary b/c I don't want to be a lying douch-bag.

Any ideas? Help!

-J
Author:  bansario [ Tue Oct 18, 2011 1:50 am ]
Post subject:  Re: In an open relationship... need help picking up NEW women?
Quote:
Hey guys, I'm in a long-term open relationship, and am struggling with HOW to broach the subject with the new women I'm meeting.

At what point in the interaction do I throw it on the table?

Not in the pick-up... not in the first 10 mins of attraction. It's a real quandary b/c I don't want to be a lying douch-bag.

Any ideas? Help!

-J
I don't see a reason why you should bring it up. You are meeting new women, and that's it. If they ask you if you're single, you simply say yes, and leave it as that.

By bringing the subject you'll not only have to do a lot of explanation, but also, some convincing for those girls who do not support this "relationship" type. In the end, you may loose a lot of chicks.

Just avoid the topic, and game women normally. If anything, the only one who needs to know is your girlfriend (and I probably wouldnt tell her either...)

Good luck ;)
Author:  JMan_01 [ Tue Oct 18, 2011 2:17 am ]
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Thanks man. I agree, it does facilitate losing some women! I guess I view it as sort of a challenge. I want to figure out if I can be honest about it up front and still score.

I'm prepared to lose some women that aren't in to the lifestyle. The situation I want to avoid is women finding out after the fact that I wasn't completely truthful. I fear the rathe of the spiteful female!

So far, my greatest successes have happened through social circle game. When women hear from other trusted sources that I am in an open relationship, in many cases they are cool with it. So I think deep down, many women don't have a problem... just trying to figure out how to increase my success, particularly with women outside my social circle.
Author:  bansario [ Tue Oct 18, 2011 2:30 am ]
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Quote:
Thanks man. I agree, it does facilitate losing some women! I guess I view it as sort of a challenge. I want to figure out if I can be honest about it up front and still score.

I'm prepared to lose some women that aren't in to the lifestyle. The situation I want to avoid is women finding out after the fact that I wasn't completely truthful. I fear the rathe of the spiteful female!

So far, my greatest successes have happened through social circle game. When women hear from other trusted sources that I am in an open relationship, in many cases they are cool with it. So I think deep down, many women don't have a problem... just trying to figure out how to increase my success, particularly with women outside my social circle.
As long as you see it as a challenge, it's all good. You can try to bring women into your reality ("The Game"...) but there might be some issues with consistency.

It's like expecting women to be ok with threesomes. Some would be up for it, but others wont.

I guess you can always try and see what happens lol.
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