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Author:  Sway321 [ Sun Oct 16, 2011 8:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Friends with benefits situation.. where did I screw it up?
Hey guys so, not so long ago, I had the crazy occurance happening to me when a girl I was talking to wanted to a friends with benefits.. hah how great I thought! Anyhow, I managed to take advantage of the situation about twice here physically and numerous times over text. After a few weeks with this, she texts me that she was sorry for leading me on and hinting thigns at me but she really likes someone and that it didn't feel right doing this with me.

I'am sitting here trying to decipher this., any clues out there? She claimed that she had akward feelings and it felt weird doing this but she admited to enjoying it and having fun..

what in the world? It's like men are not suppose to understand women..

In conclusion she wants to stop all the benefit part but keep on being friends. I consider this to be a waste of time to be honest, but if the situation is salvageable.. perhaps it is not.


what do you guys think? More then anything, it's a blow to my ego.
Author:  Tidy [ Sun Oct 16, 2011 9:04 pm ]
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She likes a guy and wouldn't feel right continuing on having sex with you. Jesus I know chicks can be hard to understand but this is pretty basic.
Author:  whitetea [ Sun Oct 16, 2011 11:21 pm ]
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you shouldn't be bothered if it was friends with benefits.
Author:  Snake Doctor [ Sun Oct 16, 2011 11:30 pm ]
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Tidy is absolutely right, not very hard to understand, most basic. You only exist for sex, that why you were friends with benefits you weren’t enough for her to fall, she now is into to another guy, so if she wants to have any opportunity with this guy she has to stop all illegal acts that she is doing with you.

Agree to be friends with her, no harm done tell her you will be there for her, maybe when she broke ups you can get back to your illegal acts with her.
Author:  Rag&BoneMan [ Sun Oct 16, 2011 11:35 pm ]
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Yea I'm going to go ahead and side with Tidy on this one. She established that she didn't want attachment. You had some fun and then she bailed because she begun to have some. I'm guessing you're annoyed about the lack of continuation but that stuff never lasts.

Also don't take it as a blow to the ego. You just had a few sessions of what I'm supposing was good sex? :roll: oh wait and the only ramification is that she still wants to be your friend? Common dude you've got to use this as a booster for your ego if anything. Please don't try and salvage this sort of thing, if you're trying to salvage friends with benefits you're going to loose a lot of credibility with her... which could pass off to her friends, which she is now a bridge to.
Author:  nikki valentine [ Sun Oct 16, 2011 11:36 pm ]
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Snake Doctor has it pretty much right. if you were friends to begin with i dont see why you would want to stop that now that you cant do anything physical with the girl
and hey you nevet know. she could easily come back to you if things dont work out
Author:  Sway321 [ Mon Oct 17, 2011 1:56 am ]
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hey thx for the awesome responces guys. It def put my mind at ease. I guess I was just annoyed about how sudden it all was. One day she was totally into it and the next she blowsm e out of the water with that. I'll take the advice and just keep her as a friend and if anything happens in the future, hell why not! haha.

It was def fun for the weeks it lasted haha. As they say, on to the next one!
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