I met a girl whilst in line for some uni fire lecture.
We exchanged numbers, kinda seemed just friendly though (oh Im great a meeting girls for friendship).
Anyway she has a BF back at home and i would've been a bit more forward or aggressive if she didn't know people in my social circle but she speaks to a lot of people i know on a regular basis. People i see everyday and some i even live with.
Basically i 'think' its on but i want to make sure she doesn't see me as her new BF. Its not that i dont want a GF, its that i want to CHOOSE if she's gunna be my GF not fall into a relationship as i still want to learn the skillset of picking up chicks. Its something i need to get sorted.
I believe if we meet up alone together anymore than a few times it will be like we are starting to date.
I also believe if i can get the 'dates' in my room/flat then it isn't so much like dating but FB's even if the first few meets are just hanging out. Its the fact its in my room not out going to the cinema and for walks.
Is this me thinking silly? Im really trying not to be the provider-BF type in general. Although secretly I'd love a girlfriend
Long post because i wanted to make sure i said the background/frame right and accurate! Thanks guys!