Do you touch your male friends often? If not, then start giving them friendly touches.
For example, holding their shoulder while asking how they're doing, or touching their upper arm when joking.
If you're comfortable doing this with male friends, I suppose it will not be a big deal doing it with girls.
You can touch girls on more places. For example, on their back or a bit above her bottom and their waste. When sitting next to a girl, you can touch her upper leg with your hand. These touches should be done very naturaly. With other words: it should be like you are not even conscious that you're touching her and you shouldn't look at your hand when you touch (you should preferably look her in the eyes).
But seriously, it's realy NO BIG DEAL. People do it all the time in all kind of contexts. Nothing to be nervous about.
What kind of touches you give depends on the situation though. Whole books can be written about this, but it differs for everyone and also for cultures. I think though that in general, I can state that, the better you both are getting on, the longer you can touch her. When it's realy on, you can purpusely give sexual touches like in the neck, on her ass or between her leg. But that's something you should experience yourself.
If you're still uncomfortable try practicing touching with a good friend.
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