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| Author: | loveshyness [ Sat Oct 15, 2011 3:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | why do i always get rejected |
i am 24 years old and i never had a gf and i always get rejected. i had a few dates in my life but the girl always ended up rejecting me. is it because i get bad luck? i feel like giving up. i try my best but i think they just get bored of me. i think i will be one of those guys that will have a gf when she has kids with another man that didn't work out. |
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| Author: | whitetea [ Sat Oct 15, 2011 3:59 pm ] |
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cos you seem to want it so much (i'm on the sort of same boat, looking for a nice girl to call my gf) might be the reason you get "rejected". the thing is when you're looking for something you never find, the moment you stop. BANG there you go you get it. concentrate on meeting new people, enjoying and being the best of yourself. but don't focus on more...just fun. and when the girl you think is right come along...and you know she's into you, give her plenty of space and the precious moments you have together make her laugh and feel special. by then you should not be reject unless its not meant. |
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| Author: | magnum45 [ Sat Oct 15, 2011 4:31 pm ] |
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Well hey, you got one post. It's a start. |
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| Author: | loveshyness [ Sat Oct 15, 2011 4:38 pm ] |
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Quote: cos you seem to want it so much (i'm on the sort of same boat, looking for a nice girl to call my gf) might be the reason you get "rejected".
i feel like i missed out a lot. in 6 years i will be 30 and it makes me feel nervous because most of my friends are engaged. the only positive thing i must say is that i bought my own house but i feel so lonely everyday. i see a lot of girls with guys that have no money at all and they treat the girl very bad. i don't know maybe i am just paranoid or desperate
the thing is when you're looking for something you never find, the moment you stop. BANG there you go you get it. concentrate on meeting new people, enjoying and being the best of yourself. but don't focus on more...just fun. and when the girl you think is right come along...and you know she's into you, give her plenty of space and the precious moments you have together make her laugh and feel special. by then you should not be reject unless its not meant. |
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| Author: | Logic Savvy [ Sat Oct 15, 2011 4:44 pm ] |
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There's a saying from a wise man that goes "Your reality is exactly how you perceive it to be." And damn is it true! If you see yourself as paranoid and all these negative things, guess what? You're gonna be just that. You gotta make some changes in your life so you see yourself as something else. It seems to me that you arent happy with yourself, even outside of the girl department. You gotta love yourself before you can love another. |
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| Author: | Lodewijkp [ Sat Oct 15, 2011 5:22 pm ] |
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i get rejected all the time BUT they are attracted...they give me the '' i have a boyfriend '' all the time... but meanwhile they keep asking what i do , who i am , what my job is and how old i am.. all girls in college hate my gut .. but they all are attracted to me..with their retarded imaginary boyfriends.. rejection doesn't mean anything... |
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| Author: | magnum45 [ Sat Oct 15, 2011 5:52 pm ] |
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How committed are you to improving your love life? |
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| Author: | Velocity! [ Sun Oct 16, 2011 1:40 pm ] |
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First of change your pattern of thoughts. If you think your first gf will be a lousy rebound chick who got ditched by her ex because she got pregnant, you will most likely get a lousy rebound chick who got ditched by her ex because she got pregnant. Raise your bar, visualize beautiful women around you, how do you get them into your life? First of you seem like quite an AFC, a condition which can luckily be trained to perish. Read about pick-up, improve yourself in any way; your lifestyle, get healthy and be confident with your body and appearance, train your social skills and learn to talk to girls ect ect. |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Sun Oct 16, 2011 2:10 pm ] |
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Ok, these are some things you should consider, how many times a day do you approach new women? do you state/show intent? do you try to lead interactions with women towards sex? go out, shoot for 30-50 approaches a day, approach any woman you would physically have sex with, start with, excuse me, I just saw you over there and I think you are adoreable, I had to come meet you, give her a few seconds to take it in, then say tell me about yourself, take the convo from there (hint hint keep the subject about her) next how is your physical appearance?, do you dress well/stylish?, are you well groomed?, are you overweight? do you have skin problems? fix all of these things to the best of your ability do 30-50 approaches for 2 weeks doing what is said above, structure everything towards, meet, coffee, your house, when at your house, your goals are, kiss, makeout, put your dick in her hand DO WHAT IS LISTED, AND FUCKING DO IT, DON'T READ ABOUT IT AND FEEL SORRY FOR YOURSELF, AND YOU WILL LOSE YOUR VIRGINITY IN UNDER 2 WEEKS, BUT YOU HAVE TO ACTUALLY TRY, NOT JUST BE A PUSSY AND SAY, BOOHOO NO GIRLS EVER HAVE CAME ONTO ME, I NEVER TRY, BUT HEY ONE TIME I MET A GIRL THROUGH SCHOOL AND SHE TALKED TO ME FIRST, YOU WILL FORGET ABOUT REJECTION AND IT CEASES TO EXIST ONCE YOU HAVE CAUGHT ON TO THE SMOKE AND MIRRORS AND WOMANLY TRICKS, JUST ASSUME EVERY GIRL IS ATTRACTED TO YOU BUT MUST DEFEND HER VAGINA, YOU MUST FIGURE OUT HOW TO GET PAST THE DEFENSE, don't feel down on yourself, fuck that shit, go out, talk to/hit on girls GOOD LUCK |
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