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Author:  hey_lover [ Thu Oct 13, 2011 5:54 pm ]
Post subject:  What Type of Place Should I Take Her to Eat?
I've scheduled a day 2 with a girl. My plan is to meet up with her at 5pm, take her to Trocadero in Central London where we'll check out a crazy museum, virtual 3d and play laser tag. However, what should I do after that? Obviously, it'll be about 8-9pm by the time we finish with that, and we're bound to want to eat. So;

a) Should I specifically plan a place to take her, and if so, should it be a fast food chain, or a proper restaurant? Maybe, Nando's?

b) Also, I don't have my own place, so I won't be able to take her there, and my hope is that I can go to hers. How do I propose that?

c) How do I suggest that we should get back now? I mean, should you say, let's pack it in now, or something along those lines?
Author:  P-Style [ Thu Oct 13, 2011 6:01 pm ]
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a) Doesn't matter. It's all good and at dates I prefer the dodgyer, the better. After all, things have to be exciting.
b) ask her where she lives and ask for modalities. And then suggest hers. If that's not possible bring a blanket and search for a park.
c) when it's go time you say it's go time. Or do you mean going to hers? You simply say "shall we leave" or "off to yours?"
Author:  SmoothOp [ Thu Oct 13, 2011 6:05 pm ]
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a) Doesn't matter. It's all good and at dates I prefer the dodgyer, the better. After all, things have to be exciting.
b) ask her where she lives and ask for modalities. And then suggest hers. If that's not possible bring a blanket and search for a park.
c) when it's go time you say it's go time. Or do you mean going to hers? You simply say "shall we leave" or "off to yours?"
If the date is going well, order take out (pizza, chinese, whatever you want) and suggest her place.
Author:  hey_lover [ Thu Oct 13, 2011 7:45 pm ]
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a) Doesn't matter. It's all good and at dates I prefer the dodgyer, the better. After all, things have to be exciting.
b) ask her where she lives and ask for modalities. And then suggest hers. If that's not possible bring a blanket and search for a park.
c) when it's go time you say it's go time. Or do you mean going to hers? You simply say "shall we leave" or "off to yours?"
-Walking down the street, seeing a small Pizza stall, suggesting we buy a slice- kind of dodgy?

Fortunately, I know where she lives -on the high street that my road is off- as we both left for home from Central London with a friend on the night we met. I feel I could have got laid that night, but my boy wanted to have an after party elsewhere (Brothers over Bitches), so I naturally opted for the former. Anyway, suggesting we go off to hers is a potential option, but there seems to be an obstacle in the horizon. She lives with her landlord, and from the sound of what she's said in regards to him, it seems like she has rented a room in the landlords house, as opposed to having either the ground or first floor. Which is hardly convenient.

A park is a possibility, what with Hyde Park being around the corner, but unless I'm able to purchase a blanket on demand, arriving at hers with one in hand would be quite awkward. We could find a bench, but that doesn't sound good, and it's likely to be cold in the late evening.

Yeah, I think I would need to suggest going off to hers, but I will definitely have to ask her about the living conditions, before going for it. The possibility of no would require a backup plan, which can only be a hotel. Hmmmmm....seems dodgy, and I'd need to book it in advance.

P.S. Escorts are such less hassle, and you're guaranteed a lay!

By the way, -in regards to text game-, all but 1 of her 36 replies over the past 6 days have started with hahaha or looool, and she's also just outrightly stated that I'm too silly and funny. The problem as I see it, is that the act is starting to get old (she also said that I was seriously not funny when I maybe took a joke last night a little far), and I haven't really tried to 'get to know her' through the texts, nor have I called her since getting her to agree to a day 2 which happened two days ago. Maybe something like;

'Hey, I've got a serious question which will either make or break us. Your answer will go a long way in determining how far we can go........What do you like most, chicken or meat?'

Hopefully, she answers.

'You're lucky, I love both!' Something along those lines, anyway. That could also maybe help me choose an eating location.

I don't know how to change it up, which is what I really need to do. Not keen on calling her until the night before to confirm, which is also something I'd like to keep short.
Author:  SmoothOp [ Thu Oct 13, 2011 8:04 pm ]
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P.S. Escorts are such less hassle, and you're guaranteed a lay!
Lol, but you can't take them to your mom's house.
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Walking down the street, seeing a small Pizza stall, suggesting we buy a slice- kind of dodgy?
If done out of the blue it will not be seen as cheap or dodgy. "You hungry? Let's try this dive!" It's your nieghbourhood, casually direct her somewhere to eat that's near your destination. Park idea is not bad, you won't bang her likely but it's somewhat "romantic". I normally plan out dates in my head, go from place to place acting like it's all spontaneous. Ex. Now that you have your food...pretend to look for a place to sit and eat (park)


Edit: Call her, lay off the funny shit and build some comfort. 5-10 min conversation. This should help. Then in person find out some more stuff about her.
I have been on multiple dates with multiple women where I never asked more the the basics (Name, work, where they live, maybe school). It hasn't been an issue for me but she may think you are trying to get laid. So comfort time dude!
Author:  Rough Operator [ Thu Oct 13, 2011 9:17 pm ]
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Usually when I'm comfort building and want to get past just boring everyday crap that she can talk to ANY person in the street about, I usually just ask stuff like "What's the craziest thing you've ever done?" or "If you had no chance of failure and could have your time again, what would you do with your life?" - That one is from Mystery haha :P

Talk about deeper stuff and as long as you don't become her therapist, you should be good. I also change subjects quite a lot and I generally become quite talkative, which can be difficult for me since I am naturally introverted.
Author:  hey_lover [ Thu Oct 13, 2011 9:17 pm ]
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P.S. Escorts are such less hassle, and you're guaranteed a lay!
Lol, but you can't take them to your mom's house.
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Walking down the street, seeing a small Pizza stall, suggesting we buy a slice- kind of dodgy?
If done out of the blue it will not be seen as cheap or dodgy. "You hungry? Let's try this dive!" It's your nieghbourhood, casually direct her somewhere to eat that's near your destination. Park idea is not bad, you won't bang her likely but it's somewhat "romantic". I normally plan out dates in my head, go from place to place acting like it's all spontaneous. Ex. Now that you have your food...pretend to look for a place to sit and eat (park)


Edit: Call her, lay off the funny shit and build some comfort. 5-10 min conversation. This should help. Then in person find out some more stuff about her.
I have been on multiple dates with multiple women where I never asked more the the basics (Name, work, where they live, maybe school). It hasn't been an issue for me but she may think you are trying to get laid. So comfort time dude!
Great advice. The only problem is that she has a very thick accent, and our first phone conversation was very problematic. She could barely understand me, at times, and it was the very opposite of smooth. Maybe I could try it through text?She's been asking personal questions quite often now through it.
Author:  Rough Operator [ Thu Oct 13, 2011 9:20 pm ]
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Usually when I'm comfort building and want to get past just boring everyday crap that she can talk to ANY person in the street about, I usually just ask stuff like "What's the craziest thing you've ever done?" or "If you had no chance of failure and could have your time again, what would you do with your life?" - That one is from Mystery haha :P

Talk about deeper stuff and as long as you don't become her therapist, you should be good. I also change subjects quite a lot and I generally become quite talkative, which can be difficult for me since I am naturally introverted.
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