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Author:  CliffRose [ Wed Oct 12, 2011 1:14 am ]
Post subject:  is this a big enough IOI in order to approach
i know i'm not suppose to look for IOI before approaching, instead i should use Myestery's 3 second rule. however, this chick and i have been making eye contact since this semester of school began. unfortunately, when the first time we made eye contact i was not interested in talking to any females at all. about a month has gone by and i see here once a week (i don't go to that class too often lol) and every time we see each other we make eye contact multiple times lasting 1-2 seconds; and it's a back and forth as to who looks away first.


is this a very good indicator that she's interested? and if so, what's the best way to approach her? any opener? or just a simple "hey, my name is so-n-so"

'ppreciate the advice
Author:  Rough Operator [ Wed Oct 12, 2011 1:21 am ]
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"Hey, are you shy or something? Because I've noticed our eyes meet several times and you've never even said hi"

I dunno :lol: That sounds really cheesy but that is probably what I would say!
Author:  CliffRose [ Wed Oct 12, 2011 2:12 am ]
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"Hey, are you shy or something? Because I've noticed our eyes meet several times and you've never even said hi"

I dunno :lol: That sounds really cheesy but that is probably what I would say!



long as it gets her talking...i've thought of just being direct with her, but not knowing a dam think about her is making me apprehensive of that; and this chick is a HB9, in my opinion of course.

would making eye contact with her, next time i see her, and have her look away first and then i go in with a slight smile on my face and just say "hey" is this too much? good enough?
Author:  Rough Operator [ Wed Oct 12, 2011 2:16 am ]
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Yeah, just go and speak to her, what's the worst that can happen?

The line I suggested before is something I might say with a smile on my face because it is congruent with my personality, I'm naturally quite cocky and confident.
Author:  bansario [ Wed Oct 12, 2011 2:19 am ]
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Be direct. Say something like "Hi, we've made eye contact many times and just wanted to come say hello...my name's____" If you can pull that one out with confidence, not only you'll know your game is good, but she'll notice it too ;).

Good luck champ.
Author:  Stand Up [ Wed Oct 12, 2011 2:21 am ]
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Just say Hi and say you're sorry you didn't come over earlier but you were kind of having a break from girls after a break up or some shit.
Author:  bansario [ Wed Oct 12, 2011 2:26 am ]
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Just say Hi and say you're sorry you didn't come over earlier but you were kind of having a break from girls after a break up or some shit.
No break up topics to discuss with strangers. Direct approaches work best if kept simple ;)
Author:  CliffRose [ Wed Oct 12, 2011 2:29 am ]
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Yeah, just go and speak to her, what's the worst that can happen?

The line I suggested before is something I might say with a smile on my face because it is congruent with my personality, I'm naturally quite cocky and confident.
i'm quite cocky/confident myself, but not when it comes to approaching (yet) and i've been telling myself that same thing "i've got nothing to lose" thanks bro


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Be direct. Say something like "Hi, we've made eye contact many times and just wanted to come say hello...my name's____" If you can pull that one out with confidence, not only you'll know your game is good, but she'll notice it too ;).

Good luck champ.
to be honest, i don't mind the rejection from here either. i'm just killing myself for learning the game and trying openers on various other girls but i'm freezing up when it comes to her, her being the hottest of them all i'm sure has a lot to do with it lol.


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Just say Hi and say you're sorry you didn't come over earlier but you were kind of having a break from girls after a break up or some shit.
i actually was taking a break from girls, came out of a LTR so i was giving myself some room to recover and move on :). but do u think it's wise to apologize and be direct enough to say "i was taking a break from girls, because my LTR ended?"


thanks for the info guys, i'll have to incorporate a bit from what each of you had suggested :)
Author:  CliffRose [ Wed Oct 12, 2011 2:30 am ]
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Just say Hi and say you're sorry you didn't come over earlier but you were kind of having a break from girls after a break up or some shit.
No break up topics to discuss with strangers. Direct approaches work best if kept simple ;)

direct approach seems to be unanimous :)
Author:  mother_fucker_2000 [ Wed Oct 12, 2011 6:36 am ]
Post subject:  Re: is this a big enough IOI in order to approach
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Is this a very good indicator that she's interested? and if so, what's the best way to approach her? any opener? or just a simple "hey, my name is so-n-so"
'ppreciate the advice
Rule number one: Its always on, with everyone, even your mum
Rule number two: Its always on.
Rule number 3: You never know unless you go int. Dude, dont be a puss waiting all this time, juest get the fuck in man. You're man, arent you? Maybe you're a boy.
Rule number four:She does not know it. How the fuck is she supposed to know if she likes you or not? She dont know anything about you.

There are many other rules I mention in my vidoes, watch them videos in my signature.

Go out friend, approach EVERYONE, dont let the bad negative retared vibe of people effect you.

BEst of luck
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