Quote: Guys, phone call or text message...it's all the same if you think about it. If a girl wants to talk to you, she'll do it even if you send her smoke signals. I suggested text messages because it's less intrusive, simpler to do right, and reduces the chances of making mistakes.
Text messages are good when the phone game is not solid, but text is not self-sustained, so at some point you have to use phone game to create attraction. That being said, I still hold my ground about texting as an initial form of communication.
Back to the question. You texted her, and she didn't reply back. Do you honestly think she didn't see the message? The thing about messages is that most of the time, people receive them (as opposed to phone calls). If she didn't respond, it's simply cause she didn't want to. I'm sorry to say it, but chances are she just didn't care enough about getting back to you.
Should you text her again? Sure why not. What is the possibility of her replying the second time? Maybe 45%. Will you need more game than necessary to create attraction at this time? Absolutely.
Do not contact her on FB. You'll be hitting the border between being interested, and a stalker.
Wait at least 3 days before sending the second message. But in the mean time, go out there and try to game some other women. You might be better off that way.
Good luck, and sorry for being brutally honest on this one.
nothing in the game is ultimate. All the techniques are there to help you along the way. There are two main parts of the game CALIBRATION and Paying attention to signels(ioi and iod) but not paying attention to them too much.
Why we text?
Because calibration lets us know that initially, its the best move. Sometimes the call could be even better. If you want to call first then you need to prepare the ground first. i would recommend a technique by khuram
when you get her number in a club or day time gaming call her right away.
For example if you are in a bar, leave her and go toward anyother part of the bar, then call her asking where is she as you cant find her. Send her to get a drink for you, when she is just about to buy the drinks, call her and tell her that you just changed your mind and would like to have blah blah. Go outside the bar, call her asking her to come outside. If day game, just pick something out of the conversation and call her after a few minutes of leaving her(just a short call). Its not only fun but builds a sense of conspiracy and gets the comfortable to pick up your calls faster than anything else on the planet.
And if you think you overdid id, then use a release pull back and it creates huge amount of confusion making the girl chase you (you can use it as a separate technique 2, make a bigger move and pull back)
so either way, its a supurb technique.
Second thing is not getting attached to signels. Her ignoring your text is a big deal? If not then why are you going to wait 3 days thinking of it as an iod and pushing her away? In my opinion, its not good
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