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Author:  Screamz [ Tue Oct 11, 2011 9:27 am ]
Post subject:  Young PUA needs help with blond babe
There's a really hot, blond babe in my uni. She lives next to me, so we meet often. Last year she called me almost every day so we walked to uni together. She was punching me and laughing really often when i joked. And sometimes she got a little jealous when i talked with other girls. She started to talk about guys hitting her all the time in clubs and calling her.

Then i gave her lots of flowers on her birthday. I didn't know about pua shit then so i showed low value sometimes (i didnt even look her in the eyes). I wanted to go to a movie with her but she flaked in last minutes.

Now i have good body language, im looking in the eyes to every girl i meet. I changed in these 2 months. I started to tease her really often i called her realy rearly. I kino now.

One month ago she saw me like this so she often chased me after uni to walk with me. She tried to flirt with other guys infront of me and then run like crazy just to catch me and see my reaction. I was calm and relaxed so i didnt show low value.

Now she started to call me rearly, but still sometimes she calls me just to talk or to go with her to uni together. In uni she acts like she dont know me but after it she is realy nice to me. Always starts conversations, helps with homeworks sometimes even if she dont want to do it.

Alot of guys is calling her all the time and gives her gifts and all kind of shit, comments every pick of her on facebook. What should i do? Do you think she wants to fuck me or just be friends? Maybe i can use her to get other babes in uni? Shes hot so ill get social value. Sometimes i use her as my practice doll to try out some pua shit on her.
Author:  bansario [ Tue Oct 11, 2011 11:07 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Young PUA needs help with blond babe
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There's a really hot, blond babe in my uni. She lives next to me, so we meet often. Last year she called me almost every day so we walked to uni together. She was punching me and laughing really often when i joked. And sometimes she got a little jealous when i talked with other girls. She started to talk about guys hitting her all the time in clubs and calling her.

Then i gave her lots of flowers on her birthday. I didn't know about pua shit then so i showed low value sometimes (i didnt even look her in the eyes). I wanted to go to a movie with her but she flaked in last minutes.

Now i have good body language, im looking in the eyes to every girl i meet. I changed in these 2 months. I started to tease her really often i called her realy rearly. I kino now.

One month ago she saw me like this so she often chased me after uni to walk with me. She tried to flirt with other guys infront of me and then run like crazy just to catch me and see my reaction. I was calm and relaxed so i didnt show low value.

Now she started to call me rearly, but still sometimes she calls me just to talk or to go with her to uni together. In uni she acts like she dont know me but after it she is realy nice to me. Always starts conversations, helps with homeworks sometimes even if she dont want to do it.

Alot of guys is calling her all the time and gives her gifts and all kind of shit, comments every pick of her on facebook. What should i do? Do you think she wants to fuck me or just be friends? Maybe i can use her to get other babes in uni? Shes hot so ill get social value. Sometimes i use her as my practice doll to try out some pua shit on her.
I think you've taken way too much time to pull the trigger. She has created an impression of you, and now that you're different, it may not be congruent to what she thought of you.

Hot women get a lot of attention, and even though you are demonstrating a lot of value, you're not taking any actions.

If she's acting cold and then hot, it might be a way for her to get a reaction from you, which unfortunately is not happening. Why would you try PUA stuff on her if you're not even going to kino escalate?!

From now on, it's your decision where you want to take things, but I'm not sure if she'd be up for "fucking" right way considering how things are going.

Good luck
Author:  Screamz [ Tue Oct 11, 2011 11:44 am ]
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what should i do then? kino escalate more? she touches me a lot more then i do so maybe thats my problem. i can try anything. im not afraid to lose or look stupid. what happens, happens!
Author:  bansario [ Tue Oct 11, 2011 11:50 am ]
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what should i do then? kino escalate more? she touches me a lot more then i do so maybe thats my problem. i can try anything. im not afraid to lose or look stupid. what happens, happens!
How about asking her out. Take her out of the setting you guys are used to. Go somewhere private. From there, you can try to kino escalate since the confidence and trust is already there.
Author:  Screamz [ Tue Oct 11, 2011 12:08 pm ]
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How about asking her out. Take her out of the setting you guys are used to. Go somewhere private. From there, you can try to kino escalate since the confidence and trust is already there.
Once every week we go to classes together where no one knows us. We always sit in the back where no one is watching us. Maybe i can slowly touch her hair and back or something? Sometimes we playfully push each other with our elbows there when no one is looking at us.
When we are with people we know then she acts a little bit cold, but once we are alone shes nice and playfull.
Author:  bansario [ Tue Oct 11, 2011 12:54 pm ]
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No man, what I meant was to take her out of the whole school/class environment. Like a date to bar or to do something fun somewhere else. Go to the beach, or to walk around the city, or whatever outside of what you guys are used to. A real "DATE".

Enough with the pushing and all that. You're not in pre-school anymore. You have to somehow translate the interaction into something more sexual (like kissing for instance) if you want to have a chance with this girl.

Realize that what you've done so far hasn't worked, so why not try something different? :)

Invite her out to a bar and have a drink with her. You too know each other, so you don't have to worry about what to say or how to act. You don't have to worry about getting too close either. Simply take control of the situation.

No more childish fooling around!! She sounds like a guy friend of yours man! She's a woman, and you're a man, therefore intimacy is a good alternative for you guys to have.

Be the man you know you are.

Good luck champ!
Author:  Screamz [ Thu Oct 13, 2011 6:55 pm ]
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Ok, i told her that we can chill sometimes together after the classes, but she answered that "We have our own lives!". Later after classes she called me. I didnt answer her call so she tried to catch me. Today she did the same. After she catched me she talked again about school stuff (tests etc.) and shit like that.

It gets really boring and im tired of all this shit.
Author:  Khrem [ Thu Oct 13, 2011 7:27 pm ]
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It seems like both of you are playing games. Dude, seriously, CUT THE SHIT. I agree with bansario: just take her out on a date. A real date, not "hanging out".

Call her and say "Let's go on a date this (day), at (time)." That's it. It doesn't have to be fancy. Don't say "let's hang out" or "go to a party", or "grab a drink". Make it clear that it will be a special event between a man and a woman.

*She may turn you down at first, and then change her mind (she sounds like the hard to get type). If she does this, just pretend like she never turned you down in the first place. Her actions doesn't affect you because you're alpha. You want her because YOU want her, not because SHE played you.*

**She may even want to keep playing the push-pull game (maybe she just doesn't get it). Again, indulge her, but don't get too emotionally involved. If she isn't interested, then she isn't interested. If she changes her mind later, then ask yourself whether or not you still like her. But don't dislike her simply because she turned you down. Remember, her actions (including rejecting you) has no effect on you. You like her because you like her, not because she did anything to you.**

***If she REALLY doesn't get it. Then she may just be stupid and you'd be wasting your time. The point is to get past that GAMING phase. No more games. If she is adamant in playing games, then move on.***
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