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Author:  PUA-Paris [ Tue Oct 11, 2011 8:30 am ]
Post subject:  What are the limits to things like this?
First off, I'm in a relationship with this girl and I've completely opened up my feelings to her..but anyways is there a limit to being lovey dovey and expressing your feelings (can be reassuring your feelings for her to make her feel special)? How often should you do it? Is it unnecessary to say things such as "I miss you" "I can't wait to see you" "I want to see you already" and you should hold those feelings to yourself unless she mentions it first? Is there limit to negging a girl you're in a relationship with? Please enlighten me :)
Author:  zzzz [ Tue Oct 11, 2011 8:35 am ]
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I wouldn't come on too hard too fast.

But there's no real need to neg a girl after she already involved with you. Tease her if it's funny, but don't go looking for chances to neg, you've nothing to gain by doing it.
Author:  bansario [ Tue Oct 11, 2011 11:15 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What are the limits to things like this?
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First off, I'm in a relationship with this girl and I've completely opened up my feelings to her..but anyways is there a limit to being lovey dovey and expressing your feelings (can be reassuring your feelings for her to make her feel special)? How often should you do it? Is it unnecessary to say things such as "I miss you" "I can't wait to see you" "I want to see you already" and you should hold those feelings to yourself unless she mentions it first? Is there limit to negging a girl you're in a relationship with? Please enlighten me :)
3 words: Take your Time. When it comes to a relationship do not rush things. You may like this girl a lot, but always remember that a long term relationship starts with a short term one.

At the beginning, there's no need for you to be all over her in terms of compliments, and all that stuff. You two are together and are getting to know each other, so relax and enjoy the process. If you miss her, instead of just saying it, simply tell her you want to see her (and do it). "I love yous" are not necessary right away either. (how can you love a person within the first couple of months?!)

Also, replace negging for playful teasing. You don't need to make fun of her all the time anymore; she's with you now. You can still keep things playful but do not be "offensive".

Also, the whole "i can't wait to see you..." just don't use it for now. If you feel really tempted, substitute it for "It should be fun to hang around together..." or something similar.

Well, hope it helps :)
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