PUA Forum :: Broke up with a girl. Was I right to do that?

Hi guys

I met a Brazilian girl a month ago, we have been sleeping together twice a week.
I invited to my mums for dinner. She agreed and ended up leting me down and ignored my calls.

About 1.20am she text saying that she was really sorry, she chickened out of going to my mums and she doesnt see how the relationship could work, shes afraid that she will be hurt by me because I see my ex wife at weekends for my sons sake, and she thinks I will get back with her.

Anyway sent her a text asking if we could see each other without being serious and could we talk, she told me that theres no point talking because I already made my decision, I dont know what she meant.

Anyway, I told her that I wont hurt her etc, no response.

So finally I sent a message, please delete my number, its obviously not going to work out. good luck with everything. Was this the right choice? Is there anyway to recover from this and keep her? The sex was good and shes gorgeous. I sent last text to try and keep some dignity, rather than to look needy.

Author:	needforspeed [ Mon Oct 10, 2011 3:10 pm ]
Post subject:	Broke up with a girl. Was I right to do that?
Hi guys I met a Brazilian girl a month ago, we have been sleeping together twice a week. I invited to my mums for dinner. She agreed and ended up leting me down and ignored my calls. About 1.20am she text saying that she was really sorry, she chickened out of going to my mums and she doesnt see how the relationship could work, shes afraid that she will be hurt by me because I see my ex wife at weekends for my sons sake, and she thinks I will get back with her. Anyway sent her a text asking if we could see each other without being serious and could we talk, she told me that theres no point talking because I already made my decision, I dont know what she meant. Anyway, I told her that I wont hurt her etc, no response. So finally I sent a message, please delete my number, its obviously not going to work out. good luck with everything. Was this the right choice? Is there anyway to recover from this and keep her? The sex was good and shes gorgeous. I sent last text to try and keep some dignity, rather than to look needy.

Author:	pukaface [ Mon Oct 10, 2011 5:23 pm ]
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Sounds like she already broke up with you. You probably did the right thing though, not sure you should have told her to delete your #, but nexting her was the right thing to do imo. Maybe text her in a month or so, but for now I don't think there's anything you can do.

Author:	bansario [ Thu Oct 13, 2011 12:01 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Broke up with a girl. Was I right to do that?
Quote: Hi guys I met a Brazilian girl a month ago, we have been sleeping together twice a week. I invited to my mums for dinner. She agreed and ended up leting me down and ignored my calls. About 1.20am she text saying that she was really sorry, she chickened out of going to my mums and she doesnt see how the relationship could work, shes afraid that she will be hurt by me because I see my ex wife at weekends for my sons sake, and she thinks I will get back with her. Anyway sent her a text asking if we could see each other without being serious and could we talk, she told me that theres no point talking because I already made my decision, I dont know what she meant. Anyway, I told her that I wont hurt her etc, no response. So finally I sent a message, please delete my number, its obviously not going to work out. good luck with everything. Was this the right choice? Is there anyway to recover from this and keep her? The sex was good and shes gorgeous. I sent last text to try and keep some dignity, rather than to look needy. I think the decision was made the moment you decided to invite a "stranger" to meet your mother. Too fast, too soon. I don't really blame her for flaking. Sorry to say it, but you fucked up. But, a new day, new game. Keep your head up and learn from this basic mistake. Other opportunities will come your way.

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