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| Author: | TonyS [ Wed Oct 05, 2011 6:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Bittersweet victory |
There is this girl at work that i tried hooking up with. She seemed open, seemed interested, but i guess i was friend-zoned somewhere along the way. She's leaving today and i thought "What the hell, i'll ask her out directly" because i was beating around the bush up until now. I froze, she was talking on the phone so i just went past her, though she did say hi to me with a big smile. I get to the buss station, 1 kilometer away. I'm sitting there like an idiot, thinking to myself "Yeah there you go again, being a fucking loser because you ain't got balls.", starting to hate myself again. And then this epic song that i really like starts playing in the speakers outside. I remember this line somebody on the forums used like "Women forgive advances but not cowards." It was like i had an epiphany, an eureka moment. I said FUCK IT, just fuck it, i'm going back there. So i walked back 1 kilometer. I missed the buss. I felt so empowered and so full of life that i couldn't believe it. For the first time in my life i felt like a man. Like a real man. No insecurities, no fears, no doubts. And it felt good. I walk straight to her booth, she was still talking on the phone. I lean on the booth, totally fucking cool and relaxed, no pressure. Didn't care about the people around us, and believe me i'm very insecure about everything. Didn't care that the phone was on and somebody else was hearing my advances. Could have been Chuck Norris on the end of the line, could have been the Pope, didn't give a shit. And i tell her, smiling: "hey, i wanna talk to you for a sec, put (the phone) it on pause". I didn't ask, didn't "beg" for her time, i told her to make some. Pure and absolute confidence, i've never felt like this before. Ever since i started reading PUA stuff i've learned that you should tell a woman what you want, not ask. I started doing it, but i didn't really "feel" it. I was always having doubts like "what if she says no, what if she doesn't react good to it, what if *insert random doubt*. This time i didn't give a fuck and i just did it. Like a man. I asked her who she's talking to on the phone and she said a friend (male). So i said "what are you up to this weekend ?" and she was like "what do you mean what am i up to?". So i said "well what are your plans?". "Oh a lot, i'm very busy, busy busy", repeating it. I got the hint, evasive shit. Don't care. Fuck you, i'm not having any of your bullshit. I actually felt this with every ounce of my body. So i ask her straight out "let's go out and have a drink, it'll be fun". And she put on a WTF oh lawdy face (smiling though) and was like "what has gotten into you ?". As if she didn't expect this behavior. It was genuine though, not faking because of the phone still being on. Friend-zoned indeed, she wasn't expecting this from me (my fault for not doing enough kino and escalation, not enough sexualization). And then she says "i'm talking to my boyfriend, can't put him on hold like this". The friend turned boyfriend. The phone was still on. I said cool, and just left, smiling to her. She's not interested, i felt it through out the week i've known her. I didn't play my cards right, but i'll look back on it, study it, learn and improve. Tonight i have lost and i have won. But it's ok. I tried. I still have a hard time dealing with rejection. With failure mostly.I would have felt like the biggest loser on the planet if i didn't do it though which is worse. For the 10040th time. I manned the fuck up and i really felt it. Loved it. I also felt like sharing this with you, even though it might get deleted for not being on topic and for being a huge block of text which nobody will read. Love you guys. Peace. |
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| Author: | TBolt [ Wed Oct 05, 2011 8:41 pm ] |
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Thanks for sharing! Just feel great about it, you did something cool. JMO. The outcome in this setting could have been anything, you manned up, so it's victory, cut the bittersweet part out! Just stick to acting this way and GO! |
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| Author: | AGDubz [ Wed Oct 05, 2011 10:49 pm ] |
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Much respect! |
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| Author: | Maccas [ Thu Oct 06, 2011 12:30 am ] |
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A post like that is never too long man, great to read it! Look forward to hearing success stories from you in the future
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