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Okay i have a dinner date with a girl tonight. Shes playing hard to get / doesnt know what she wants. Any tips ? Ill be walking her to town and home again.
Weve kissed on two nights out
Shes said she doesnt know what she wants / just come out of a relationship
Has said she wants to get to know me more
Women say a lot of things they don't mean, but sometimes, they DO mean it. Now, look at your situation. You have kissed twice and now you're going to a dinner date.Weve kissed on two nights out
Shes said she doesnt know what she wants / just come out of a relationship
Has said she wants to get to know me more
Possibilities:
1-Chances are you're game hasn't been solid enough for her to want more than "let's just get to know each other". (not trying to offend your level of experience by the way
). 2- She's not sure whether she really likes you or not.
3- She likes you, but still thinks about her ex-bf. For some women this is actually important, and hard to get rid off.
If I were to made some predictions, I'd say that you might be placed into the LJBF zone. It seems as if you're approaching her with the idea of having a relationship, which always screws your game at the initial stage. Now, she has the upper hand in this interaction, and even if you play good game, it may seem inconsistent to what you've shown so far. Inconsistency = fake, which women tend to avoid. So, you're going to keep doing whatever it is you've been doing, and she's going to continue showing resistance. End result. You asking more questions about her in this forum, unfortunately (or fortunately
).I think soon you'll have to make the decision whether to continue this little game she's playing or not. Well, if she gives you some sex, you might want to continue of course lol.
For the future, read this post about Dinner Dates: http://bosproject.com/blog/dinner-dates ... irst-date/
Hope it helps, and sorry if it sounded as if I was attacking you. That wasn't my intention.
Good luck!