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Author:  Agent_Smith [ Tue Oct 04, 2011 1:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Opening a cold case

There are few girls that I ended up on a date with and things went well but I didn't really escalate and they lost interest.

Now I've got my shit together and I'm super unafraid of creating sexual tension and dealing with it or escalating.

Is it worth me trying to get these girls back?

Should I re initiate the interaction with a call, cheeky text?

Author:  P-Style [ Tue Oct 04, 2011 5:01 pm ]
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Who are we to decide? I you feel like, do it. If you don't feel like it, don't.

Author:  anthonypham [ Tue Oct 04, 2011 8:26 pm ]
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Who are we to decide? I you feel like, do it. If you don't feel like it, don't.
I totally agree. You can game EVERYONE, ANYTIME, ANYWHERE!
It is your call!!

[I am thinking of doing the same. I met a girl a year ago, but I had one-itis. There was a moment that she showed interest in me, but I chickened out. Now, as a PUA-to-be, I feel like to game her, no matter what the outcome will be!]

Author:  bansario [ Tue Oct 04, 2011 11:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Opening a cold case

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There are few girls that I ended up on a date with and things went well but I didn't really escalate and they lost interest.

Now I've got my shit together and I'm super unafraid of creating sexual tension and dealing with it or escalating.

Is it worth me trying to get these girls back?

Should I re initiate the interaction with a call, cheeky text?
Although we're no one to make that decision for you, I'd suggest you not to (don't criticize me just yet lol).

First impressions are essential, and if you failed to pull the trigger, you most likely missed the chance. Now, could you get them back? Yes, but at what price?! You will have to spend way too much time and effort to erase the "weak" image you have already created. Might as well go for new targets that are going to be way easier and more into you overall.

Also, by going back to these women, you're giving them the upper hand automatically. If they reject you, could you simply get over it no problem? Ask yourself that question, and weigh your conclusions.

My 2 cents :)

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