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Author:  whiteshadow21 [ Mon Oct 03, 2011 8:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Is this a good opener for a girl who gave me loads of IOI's?
Hey guys,

There's this girl at uni, she gave me IOI's for a whole semester, but I was your classic AFC and did nothing about it. I haven't even spoken to her, but I really want to.

I've been looking at different openers to use, but I feel using an opener like the shady friend opener would be a bit strange.

I was thinking about opening with a comment about her she looks like this weather girl from the television (she really does), and then going on to say that apparently she recieves loads of marriage proposals (a bit strange, but that's what she said in an interview), and how maybe if she changed degree and became a weather she could get marriage proposals sent to her. I was then going to try and build some rapport with her.

I'm just not sure if this is a bit wierd. Also I'm worried it will just seem like I've planned this whole conversation. I think I could deliver it in a way that makes it seem like I'm improvising, but I'm not sure about it.

Any help on this would be great.
Author:  Brysti [ Mon Oct 03, 2011 9:28 pm ]
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Comparing her with the weather girl sounds like a good idea to me.

But the fact that you waited a few damn months to talk to her will throw her off guard if you start talking to her.

You could proceed with making her predict the weather. The marriage kind of thing doesn't sound like a great idea for the follow-up, you could use that later.

If she really has been giving you IOI's all the time, she will leap at the chance to talk to you if you approach her. Try to be natural. You can have a loose list of things you could talk about in relation with eachother, but PLEASE don't memorize an exact conversation in your head, as she could respond totally different than you might have thought or not wanna talk about some things you had in your head.

Make it seem effortless, be the natural.
Author:  ProfessorX [ Tue Oct 04, 2011 1:34 am ]
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If she's giving you IOI's go open with "Hi". Don't over-think it.
Author:  skills360 [ Tue Oct 04, 2011 4:28 am ]
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If she's giving you IOI's go open with "Hi". Don't over-think it.

Exactly, Hi, i always see you around, so i decided to take the initiative an introduce myself, i am Brad pit, and extend hand, when she gives you her hand kiss seductively the cheeck... she will laugh... then she will ask for your real name ioi, be normal, act normal...Wrapped minds says act like a girl you already slept with, excellent advise. then seduce with eyes and body language try to kino...Say after well i got a get back to my friends, start pulling out your cell, give me your number, cause i want to call you, hand her the phone and say put it in here cause i suck, do not lean, cool james dean behavior.
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Tue Oct 04, 2011 4:51 am ]
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Yeah don't plan anything. I can already tell you're going to overthink things and screw up somehow you're not expecting. Practice meditation. If you aren't sure that you're meditating correctly, you're not. Once you can meditate, do so then go and interact with the world in that state of mind.
Author:  whiteshadow21 [ Tue Oct 04, 2011 4:18 pm ]
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Cheers guys. Yeah I really am over thinking this. I think I'll do what Brysti suggested, but then just talk to her, I have a few topics in my head.

Cheers
Author:  aidenfuckingbaker [ Tue Oct 25, 2011 11:20 pm ]
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Your problems sound like problems I had in high school. Tons of iois but not knowing what to do about them. The answer: Just be a Man. Be The Man. Be the Best Man.
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