First of all, you're whining. I can see why you would need advice about women.
Second of all, let's look at every single one of the threads you've started that currently have 0 replies:
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Am out back packing and meeting many woman from over seas, particularly Germany; should there be any differences in my general approach to them? What if they're not fluent?
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Gonna be staying/working with a girl I really dig in a week, am bit of a AFC though; could people please direct me to some good information? So many questions I have....
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Anyone here sarge in Adelaide?
Do you see anything unappealing with the above three posts? I realize that English is not your first language, but, unfortunately, posts with broken English tend to get ignored on forums where English is the dominant language. Most of the time, it will not be so much a problem because a lot of people are willing to see past this and help out to the best of their ability, but your above posts are also way too vague to merit a comprehensive response.Quote:
Sorry for the rough OP, hard to type on this computer/little time. Really appreciate some advice!
I'm currently back packing SPAM, and at another farm there's this german back packing couple that I really want to fool around with(just one of them) I've had fairly good conservations, a few things she's done has show interest in me and am going to ask her out somewhere sometime. However, not sure how to go about it. The last girl I fancied I didn't advance quickly enough and ended in the friends zone. she's a little older and I can't take the whole kiddy take it slow omg we're kissing ya line, need to be more adult/direct about it I think. Want some clarification/elaboratism on some stuff; a Psychologist told me that after 12 hours one starts to move into the friend zone, and after encounter 3 I will be over that line, meaning I'll need to make a sexual advance in encounter 3, I think. I've talked much more to the german I fancy that the other but haven't show any sexual interest, if I ask her out by herself I am making it clear I dig her, meaning I think I have to come on somewhat strongly, obvuiosuly not jumping on her but I bit more than kiddy love, I think the only line I can take is to ask her out by herself though. I'm at a tourist destination place SPAM, so there's plenty of places I can get her to come with to, transport may be a pain though, just not sure what kind of destination to ask her out too, what my general mannerisms/mood persona be(act happy and try to divert that energy to her/be more relaxed and unphased unless there's generally something to be phased by) and the whole sexual advance stuff. Advice please!!!
Here's some background info if people are real keen on helping me out here
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On the other extreme end of the spectrum, you have THIS wall of text. It's an eyesore to attempt to read. I couldn't bring myself to read everything here. Use paragraphs. I'm sure you learned how to properly use paragraphs to break up an essay in your own native language. English is not so different.I'm currently back packing SPAM, and at another farm there's this german back packing couple that I really want to fool around with(just one of them) I've had fairly good conservations, a few things she's done has show interest in me and am going to ask her out somewhere sometime. However, not sure how to go about it. The last girl I fancied I didn't advance quickly enough and ended in the friends zone. she's a little older and I can't take the whole kiddy take it slow omg we're kissing ya line, need to be more adult/direct about it I think. Want some clarification/elaboratism on some stuff; a Psychologist told me that after 12 hours one starts to move into the friend zone, and after encounter 3 I will be over that line, meaning I'll need to make a sexual advance in encounter 3, I think. I've talked much more to the german I fancy that the other but haven't show any sexual interest, if I ask her out by herself I am making it clear I dig her, meaning I think I have to come on somewhat strongly, obvuiosuly not jumping on her but I bit more than kiddy love, I think the only line I can take is to ask her out by herself though. I'm at a tourist destination place SPAM, so there's plenty of places I can get her to come with to, transport may be a pain though, just not sure what kind of destination to ask her out too, what my general mannerisms/mood persona be(act happy and try to divert that energy to her/be more relaxed and unphased unless there's generally something to be phased by) and the whole sexual advance stuff. Advice please!!!
Here's some background info if people are real keen on helping me out here
\\advice-please-stop-seeing-girl-tldr-vt9 ... highlight=All in all, you're just blaming shit on external factors when you could be more productive by taking a critical look at your own behavior.
You're going to need to learn these progressive and non-whining habits if you want to be successful with women.
If you want to make an attractive post that many people will read and reply to, Reo has written about this matter here: how-2-create-sexy-post-appeal-vt26586.html