Whats up fellas? Just joined the forum. I'm 21, and I love women. Can I get an amen on that??
Anyways, I recently got out of a 5 year relationship. I was always faithful, so now that I am single I am realizing that I have had very little practice with actively pursuing women. I am talking to 4 or 5 girls now, and have been hanging out with all of them.. The thing is, all but 1 of them are girls that I already knew and decided to start hollerin at since I'm single. I've only gotten 3 numbers since the break up (a 100% success rate, i just havent been asking very many girls) I am not satisfied and would like to work on meeting more women in general.
I like to think that I know the basic ropes of pick up. Even though I was dating, I have had an interest in this subject for a couple years. I have seen vids, read tons of ebooks, lurked on some forums such as your own, and soaked up a lot of the concept. It has definitely had a positive effect on my attitude towards women, my friends, life.. I may not be a master PUA yet or be the most smooth talking cat on this board, but ya better believe that in my social circle I am alpha as a mothafucka. Problem is I haven't ever put that attitude to work in the field and tested any pick up stuff on random girls.. Like I said, I was a faithful boyfriend. And to be honest, I always thought while I was with her that if we were to break up I had more then enough confidence to go meet girls. At this point though I can only seem to connect with girls I already knew, with a couple exceptions.
I dont want this to come across as I think I know it all.. I joined your forum cause I have found tons of good advice within the concepts of pickup that has helped me develop my take on what it means to be a man. And being the man makes me feel fucking amazing, so for this I thank you. I only want to continue to better myself.. I missed out on all of my teens, so I figure I owe it to myself to enjoy my 20's
Advice for the new guy?
As khuram said, we are always here for any hep you want.