How's it going playas? Sorry if i posted this in the wrong section. This is kind of a multi-faceted piece.
So, i've been talking with this HB9 as of late. i've only hung out with her in person maybe once or twice
(she lives way outta town, so i dont get to see her all the time).
Anywho, last night she was drinking and i happened to be doing the same. we werent drinking together,
so she started to IM me. I said i was being rude so i'd msg her later.
I hate doing this as i'm more of a private person, but i'll post the convo.
I have a feeling i know where i made mistakes due to my personality (im not a fuck and chuck kinda guy, i just cant do that)
and my personal feelings get in the way of my game, but here it goes.
Be blunt with me, i'm stubborn and it'll do me some good:
Me: Hey, you still up?
HB: Yup, drinkin with Jess my BFF lol.
Me: Oooo, i'm drinking too! :PSay hi to Jess for me! What are you girls up to?
HB: Chillin walking around *place*, woooo my fingers are too cold to text or i'm too drunk i dont know lol wbu?
Me: Oh, well its easier if i call you. What's your number?
HB: ***-***-**** but i'm talkin in depth to my bff lol
Me: No worries haha. How about you phone me when you arent so in depth then? ***-***-****
HB: Lolllll dude i'm kinda drunk but if you say so!
Me: No worries haha. i dont mind, caaaaaaause im a little buzzed too haha
HB: LollllzzZ okay (This was obviously fake drunk, i used to be a bouncer and can read that shit in any form)
Me: So yeah, I'll let ya get back to having deep meaningful conversation
half hour later...
HB: Whatttttts up yo?
Me: Not tooooo much
just having random good conversation with some peeps.Just had a heated religion debate that had to be ended abruptly haha. what about you?
HB:Heated religion debate?! oo my! um me and my friend are just talking about life and boys and shit.
Me: oooo, those ones are the best!
It's just the guys left standing here and we're talking about halloween HB:OMG I LOVE HALLOWEEN (i didnt reply to this one.)
5 minutes later...
HB: I'm SO BORED AND NOT READY TO SLEEP
Me: Loool. You girls having a slumber party? I just have to say my goodbyes. May I call you after?
HB: Noo we arent sleeping over and yeah sure i'm bored as hell!
Me. Haha, cool. Probably like 15ish.
HB: Okay well if i dont respond u know im asleep lol.
Me: Oh. Okay then.
HB: okay your face!
Exactly 15 minutes later, i phoned. She picked up and did the whole "sleepy voice" kinda thing.
we were on the phone for almost an hour.
Sometimes, she would say she should go to sleep because i made her loud on the phone and she didnt wanna wake her parents up,
but i just said "im not done yet!" and she stayed on the phone. I dont think she actually wanted to get off the phone at all from what i could tell,
as it wasn't exactly difficult to keep her on the line. The gist of the conversation was basically talking about
some deeper parts of our lives, like serious family problems and stuff like that.
I ended the call by saying that i was now as tired as she was, and she said "goodnight" to me.
I think it was the first time she had ever said that instead of just the usual "bye!".
There were some things that im unsure of though.
she described me as "an unknown entity". i dont know what to think of that.
She seems to be afraid or unsure of something. For example:
Me: I wish you knew me better haha!
HB: Why?
i didnt even get a chance to reply and then she seemed to, in a scared sort of flip flop, say...
GAHHH DONT LIKE ME! CUZ this always happens and then i feel like a bitch because i only want to be friends and then it gets all awkward!!!!
Me: haha! do i come off as that immature? You are not a bitch, and I respect how you feel.
HB: NOOOOOOO, i'm just gun shy!!!!! BBM is also a crappy way to communicate... and SWEET JESUS thank you! lol.
That "F" word scares the shit out of me when women use it on me.
i dont know if she means it or what. She uses a lot of kino on me when we are together in person...
maybe she's just a touchy feely person?
HELP ME SEDUCTION MASTERS!!!!
Thanks in advance guys.