context: college game, im a freshmen, shes a 5th year senior, but she lives in my home town. shes from sweden, if thats makes any difference.
okay so ill try to keep this short: i met this girl a week ago at a restaurant, got her number. i feel like ive never met a girl ive clicked with so easily. so i take her to the mall saturday, afterwards she takes me back to her place, gets me super drunk while she stays sober, and then has sex with me. we hang out all night, get food, party, etc. and shes seems like super into me. i sleep over, we have super deep conversation, she keeps saying id make the perfect bf etc etc. we get breakfast the next morning.
then she tells me she feels really guilty because theres this guy shes sort of dating but they havent hooked up yet or something? and they arent exclusive. we text like 24/7 after that and i ask her to hang out one night but she implied she was on her period. next night she invites me over but rescinds her invitation. i try and go for a classic role reversal "oh wow someone is just using me for sex huh
" stuff like that, and i guess i went to far with it cuz she got the idea that i wanted to be exlcusive with her, and she basically made up a bunch of excuses then told me that there are a bunch of red flags or something. then im like well i am who i am i cant change that. and she basically told me she will still hang out and see where it goes, just be warned that she has "multiple attachments". we texted a bunch back and forth after that, (this was tuesday) and i ran into her at a club today and we talked for a while, a lot of heavy kino, i had my arm around her etc. but she wouldnt dance with me cuz she said the guy was there that she is sort of dating or w/e. and idk what to do. i feel like she was uper into me but i gave her gthe wrong impression that i wanted a relatioonship which i dont and now shes super turned off. can i turn it around, or is it too late?