Help me out here. 'Met' this woman online. She's 33, but looks like about an 8.5. I need advice beyond 'just be more alpha' (workin on it yo!). Honestly she is acting 22.

She flakes on our mid-week date an hour and a half before the time. My friends tell me give her one more chance. She wants to reschedule, so I suggest Fri (perhaps a mistake but i knew she'd be available). I tell her to meet me near my place and we'll go from there. She says 'great!'. I'm thinking 'win'.

Now we get closer to the date and she texts me saying she's looking forward to meeting me. Then follows it up with a text with the qualities/parameters of the type of place she wants to go and asks if I have any ideas. I'm fresh out of ideas since she's asking for the impossible (quiet, not too many people, in a big city, on a Friday night).

Perhaps this is why I have never done a first date on a Fri....LOL

Help me out here. 'Met' this woman online. She's 33, but looks like about an 8.5. I need advice beyond 'just be more alpha' (workin on it yo!). Honestly she is acting 22.

She flakes on our mid-week date an hour and a half before the time. My friends tell me give her one more chance. She wants to reschedule, so I suggest Fri (perhaps a mistake but i knew she'd be available). I tell her to meet me near my place and we'll go from there. She says 'great!'. I'm thinking 'win'.

Now we get closer to the date and she texts me saying she's looking forward to meeting me. Then follows it up with a text with the qualities/parameters of the type of place she wants to go and asks if I have any ideas. I'm fresh out of ideas since she's asking for the impossible (quiet, not too many people, in a big city, on a Friday night).

Perhaps this is why I have never done a first date on a Fri....LOL

lol skills i did in fact respond almost identical to that! of course she never texted back. i'm starting to notice that one might have to go easy on the negs with the 30+ group....