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| Author: | Chai [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 4:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Does this count as an approach? Want some perspective... |
Hey guys. I been trying to get over my AA for a while now and after a 3 month gap I started cold approaching again on girls to get my confidence up. The only thing is, do you think an approach counts if you approach a girl doing Promotions or like a chick working at a hair salon for example? Cause I decided to try a new opener today on a chick today who worked at a hair salon (she was an HB8), it all went well but I felt that it was a little too easy. A while back I also approached a girl doing promotions and asked her where the nearest coffee shop is. She complied well but when I did it I though "Wow, that was really easy." Girls during work are meant to be friendly and social to people who approach them but I'm wondering if thats a loophole in the game. Like, they are offering virtually a guarentteed compliency if you talk to em (cause its their job to give info) but does it still count as an approach? It's just fuckin bugging me guys I would like your viewpoint, maybe its just me? Is an approach, an approach and approach? You get me? Thanks guys. Chai |
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| Author: | Tidy [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 5:11 pm ] |
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Where you interested in them? Were you running genuine game on them? If you answered yes then it counts. AA will bother you when you approach ANY girl who you find attractive. If you felt nervous during it then props to you for getting through it! However you do have less chance with these people, than people who have actually gone out to meet other people on a night out. That's the viewpoint I used to get over my AA to begin with: On a night out, everyone is out to meet other people, it's the entire point! For both men and women. If you go to a club and don't meet anyone new, it's like going to the pool and not swimming. |
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| Author: | Chai [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 5:25 pm ] |
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Yeah I mean I found them both attractive thats why i approached them  The openers were genuine so that counts as well. What do you mean though when you said "you do have less chance with these people, than people who have actually gone out to meet other people on a night out"? |
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| Author: | Tidy [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 5:44 pm ] |
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Well not necessarily, that was probably a bad way to phrase it. I what I mean is that the people you were on about have unconditional conversations with lots of people everyday as part of their job. They'll have good conversation with anyone whether they are interested by them or not. It doesn't mean you have less chance, but they will have had many many similar convos with people that day. People in bars and such are harder to approach because they have more of an option to reject you. But they are also out for the sole purpose to meet other people and have fun. |
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| Author: | Chai [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 5:58 pm ] |
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Yeah that was a better analogy right there haha. I see what you're getting at, I should diversify my approaches. I'm actually going out now to go approach some more. I'll give my progress afterwards! Thanks man this helped! |
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| Author: | P-Style [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 6:00 pm ] |
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chatting is chatting. |
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| Author: | OG_Kdub [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 8:32 pm ] |
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Indirect asking for info, is a good way to get used to approaching with less pressure and getting over AA a little but you'll have to evolve to more direct methods if you want to close. |
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| Author: | Chai [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 8:41 pm ] |
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What can be more direct than a cold approach? You mean like after your in the set and you start kino escalating an whatnot? |
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| Author: | OG_Kdub [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 10:24 pm ] |
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Example of a Direct Cold Approach: You see a gorgeous girl reading a book on a park bench. Me: Excuse me I was just heading this way(N,S,W,E) when I noticed how stunning you look....etc That's a direct approach I'm not hiding my intentions... If you want to see direct approach, check out Sasha PUA on Youtube but if you want to master it, practice and go out. |
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| Author: | kaala [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 10:34 pm ] |
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To get rid of AA, purposely put yourself in to uncomfortable situations. Dont make it easy for yourself. If the approach was easy for you and you didnt felt like stepping out of your comfort zone a bit, then change the approach and make it harder for you. In the end you find how stupid it really is to feel nervious when approaching a girl. |
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| Author: | Chai [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 10:58 pm ] |
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True. True. I'm going out this weekend to really work on my AA so afterwards i'll post my progress. Hold thumbs guys 
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