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| Author: | tornadox [ Wed Sep 28, 2011 9:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Having problems with this girl |
Hi guys. I am having problems with this girl. I am currently in college and I met this girl and she is very attracted to me. She is very outgoing. I have gone back to her place twice and both times have ended in just making up for 20 mins then we cuddle. I want to take things further with her but dont know what I am doing wrong. |
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| Author: | Snake Doctor [ Wed Sep 28, 2011 9:46 pm ] |
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Escalate? Excite her maybe. |
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| Author: | bansario [ Wed Sep 28, 2011 10:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Having problems with this girl |
Quote: Hi guys. I am having problems with this girl. I am currently in college and I met this girl and she is very attracted to me. She is very outgoing. I have gone back to her place twice and both times have ended in just making up for 20 mins then we cuddle. I want to take things further with her but dont know what I am doing wrong.
Have you tried taking things to the next level though? Is she rejecting you?
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| Author: | tornadox [ Sat Oct 01, 2011 3:07 pm ] |
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new infomation:" Just went back to her place last night and First she took my clothes off. I tried to take her dress off but she said "nice try". Then we hook up a little more than went back to sleep. Woke up in the morning than we made out a little more. She wants me to go out with her tonight but I decline and we are at this stage that we kiss on the lips as a greeting. She also ask me if I was tested. |
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| Author: | Don Draper [ Sun Oct 02, 2011 10:01 am ] |
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Well, you can tell her clearly that you aren't her pet, with whom she can do as she pleases. Let her know that while you are attracted to her, you are just not going to be toyed with, and she has to make up her mind about taking things to the next level. If she's ready for that, well and good, if not wish her the best ahead and move on and find a girl who is not going to more open to intimacy. Also, another thing could be that you don't dominate in the relationship. If she is the one wearing the pants, you have definitely got problems. Take the reins back into your hand and command the direction of this. When you're in control of things, it frankly becomes quite easy to get what you want. Good luck. |
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| Author: | khuram [ Sun Oct 02, 2011 2:52 pm ] |
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mistakes you are making 1. Not escalating enough. 2. Not escalating the right way. 3. Not responding to her "sexually rejecting you". Fix these mistakes 1st. Fuck talking direct about it with her. First get mistake fixed that you are making, and if still it doesnt work, thats the time to ask direct. Going direct without correcting your mistakes is just like walking upto a girl saying,"would you like to get fucked?" ofcourse, in some cases it might work, but it's not the proper wayld you like to get fucked?" ofcourse, in some cases it might work, but it's not the proper way |
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