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Author:  charliecheif [ Sun Sep 25, 2011 10:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Dont know where i stand, or what to do!

Right, long and short of it is i went out last night gaming, picked up this absolute stunner, k-closed and number closed her, left it with her basically begging me to message me the next day (today) so i left it fairly late in the day to message her, it was going well, a fair few messages exchanged, making sure i was directing conversation towards her asking more questions and keeping the chat alive, it then got to this point:

ME: Hey, so last night was fun! Fancy going host tomorrow (host being a bar/club in my town)
HB: I doubt i could any alcohol as i still feel ill :(
ME: WOW! its a monday, lets not drink, just get some food?
HB: Erm ill see how i feel tomoroz!
ME: sounds good!

Is she being genuine, or Is she blowing me off? If so whats the best way to go from here, i was thinking about maybe ringing her around lunch time and being kinda direct? And if she flakes then suggest another activity and day to go?

thanks

Author:  P-Style [ Mon Sep 26, 2011 6:39 am ]
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We'll see equals almost always no.

Author:  charliecheif [ Mon Sep 26, 2011 7:26 am ]
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whats the best way to go about it? ask again today and if she brushes me off again re-arrange for another time or should i flake on her before saying something like 'oh sorry i wouldn't be able to make tonight, but we should definitely go grab some food later this week?''

Author:  Tr@veler [ Mon Sep 26, 2011 7:35 am ]
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Dont ask. Tell her. That was your mistake imo.
You said, "fancy....blabla?"Instead it should have been something like "Hey, I'm going to blabla...you should come along.2

Author:  charliecheif [ Mon Sep 26, 2011 2:22 pm ]
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yeah i guess..... wahts the next step form where i am tho?

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