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Author:  BoomSwitched [ Fri Sep 23, 2011 4:51 pm ]
Post subject:  How to move on?
I am in the education once a week ( 10 months left). I saw a girl there and she looked special in many ways and I couldnt get her out of my mind. She was buying a tea there and I was next to her on the line. She didnt have enough cash to buy a tea and there was a limit for a credit card for 5€ minimum. She didnt want to buy anything else and she said that she will pay it next time. Shop assistant said ok.

I didnt really thought about anything but I decided to say to her that I buy her a tea. She said thanks and that she will offer me next time. Then we talked something about that education stuff only few minutes.

Next time she came to me with money and paid it. I said thanks with a big smile. Then she was gone? I was confused. I was sure that she will offer me it. Pretty rude move :)

What I suppose to do next time? She is a christian and I am too.
Author:  Don Draper [ Fri Sep 23, 2011 8:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to move on?
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I am in the education once a week ( 10 months left). I saw a girl there and she looked special in many ways and I couldnt get her out of my mind. She was buying a tea there and I was next to her on the line. She didnt have enough cash to buy a tea and there was a limit for a credit card for 5€ minimum. She didnt want to buy anything else and she said that she will pay it next time. Shop assistant said ok.
With that line in your head, you just placed her on the pedestal normally reserved for Goddesses and all that. Bravo!

All that importance you have given her, even before you know 10 things about her, is just shooting yourself in the foot. Nothing more, nothing less.

Ditch that idea of her, okay? She is a human being, she has two legs, two hands, probably ten fingers and everything else, like the rest of her kind. She's not something out of the planet, just another woman.
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I didnt really thought about anything but I decided to say to her that I buy her a tea. She said thanks and that she will offer me next time. Then we talked something about that education stuff only few minutes.
She was just being polite. That's all there is to that.
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Next time she came to me with money and paid it. I said thanks with a big smile. Then she was gone? I was confused. I was sure that she will offer me it. Pretty rude move :)

What I suppose to do next time? She is a christian and I am too.
No, not a rude move. She doesn't know shit about you and doesn't owe you anything. Hell, she just returned your money and moved on, like the good girl she probably is. Just because you offered to buy her a cup of tea, does not entitle you any extra favors from her. Okay? You did not put even the slightest of efforts in developing any sort of attraction whatsoever, and you expect her to what? Marry you? Grow up.

And the fact that you are of the same religion as her, let me tell you what it means. It means Jack Squat, is what it means.
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