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Author:  plexiglass [ Fri Sep 23, 2011 4:48 am ]
Post subject:  Stuck after number-close.
Met a Korean girl in Malaysia this weekend. She was cute and we both are actually living/working in Singapore. We flirted and she gave me a few IOI's.

I ended up dancing with her and asking for her number. She gave it to me.

I waited 4 days and gave her a call at around 6:30pm. She sounded happy to hear from me, but said she was still in the office and that we can talk later. Don't think she was lying, it definitely sounded like an office environment.

Here are the texts that happened afterwards:
  • Her (Thursday 9:50pm): Just finished work.omg... Kk hope to see you soon :) good nights!
    Me (Thursday 10:05pm): Lucky you, im still at work. Give me a call if you're free.
    Me (Friday 11:02am): Hey you, guess I missed you last night. I wanted to see what you have planned for this weekend.
    Her (Friday 11:43am): Hey.hi. Im sick.. will be off til Monday. I should take a rest. No plans for this week though.. T.T Have a nice wkd
Disclaimer: her english isn't the best.

Need to know what you think my next move should be. I honestly feel like she likes me, but don't want to prolong asking her out. My gut tells me I should wait till sunday, give her a call in the afternoon and set a date for a night out during the week.

What do you think?

Thanks guys! :)
Author:  charblad [ Fri Sep 23, 2011 5:01 am ]
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ugg all the reposts of the same question XD
Heres how your chat should have went
Her (Thursday 9:50pm): Just finished work.omg... Kk hope to see you soon good nights!
Me (Thursday 10:05pm): Lucky you, im still at work. Wednesdays are restaurant dining days. Wear casual/dress.
(she would text you smore here, instead of leaving u hangin)
Me (Friday 11:02am): hia (playful version of hi), you got clothes picked out for wednesday?
Her (Friday 11:43am): Hey.hi. Im sick.. will be off til Monday. I should take a rest. Might be good by wednesday but i'll see how i feel.
And thats more like how it shoulda/coulda gone
Author:  plexiglass [ Fri Sep 23, 2011 5:04 am ]
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ouch. thanks.

so is this now a lost cause or can i salvage?

basically want to play cool and not seem pushy. should i call? text?
Author:  kasabi [ Fri Sep 23, 2011 6:34 am ]
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So you could have done this better. You didn't. So what?

Just pick up the pieces and move forward. She's 'sick' can mean anything. She could be having her period. She could really be sick and be squirting diarrhea. Her mom might be in town. Her boyfriend might be in town. None of this matters. She left you the ,"I HAVE NOTHING PLANNED FOR THE WEEK." - Take it, plan it well, score . . .
Author:  0uch [ Fri Sep 23, 2011 7:46 am ]
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you did not mess it up.
Author:  plexiglass [ Fri Sep 23, 2011 9:00 am ]
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awesome, this community rocks. i feel more confident already.

i've decided to just enjoy my weekend and give her a call on Sunday afternoon to make some plans for the week.
Author:  0uch [ Fri Sep 23, 2011 10:27 am ]
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Quote:
awesome, this community rocks. i feel more confident already.

i've decided to just enjoy my weekend and give her a call on Sunday afternoon to make some plans for the week.
If worst comes to worst, stay in contact. I have had sarge girls that came out to hang out with me after like couple months of sarging her.

Also, is not over until she stops responding to you. If she still responds, your still in. But I can tell you, unless if the girl is super into you, is gonna be hard to get her to come out really quickly. Just imagine having like 10 girls after you. Yeah, at some point your gonna be available to hang out, but not right away. Thats how a lot of girls are that you meet. They have tons of guys after them. Even the ugly ones.
Author:  anthonypham [ Fri Sep 23, 2011 11:08 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Stuck after number-close.
Quote:
  • Her (Thursday 9:50pm): Just finished work.omg... Kk hope to see you soon :) good nights!
    Me (Thursday 10:05pm): Lucky you, im still at work. Give me a call if you're free.
    Me (Friday 11:02am): Hey you, guess I missed you last night. I wanted to see what you have planned for this weekend.
    Her (Friday 11:43am): Hey.hi. Im sick.. will be off til Monday. I should take a rest. No plans for this week though.. T.T Have a nice wkd
For some reason I think she is hesitating whether or not to date you again.

Sure, she had fun with you that night. Probably there was not enough attraction/comfort built, that's why she was not that enthousiastic/initiating new date during the text messaging. In her mind she had fun with you, but thinks that you want more than just fun. She is, at this moment, in doubt in what 'box' she should put you: Friend or Lover.

Text/call her that you are going out with your friends Friday night at some bar. And that she should come too, and she should bring her friends. This make more comfortable for her. And during the night, you isolate her from the group and you do your PUA-thing :)
Author:  plexiglass [ Tue Sep 27, 2011 6:40 pm ]
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So I ended up calling her again and she didn't pick up. But after a few rings there was a message that said "the number you are dialing is not in service"

I messaged her this on facebook
Quote:
hey I tried calling you earlier, but your phone doesn't seem to work?? did you forget to pay your phone bill again? ;)
She replied
Quote:
Oops.. I missed the call haha. Nomally i m not busy at all.. But im busy this week. Cuz of Customers from korea.So sorry to keep saying no!!!! I hope to see u maybe next week? Have a grt weekend
I'll just message her this weekend and set a date :) For some reason it seems like its easier to talk to this girl over facebook then by phone even though I know that's generally against PUA rules. I think she's shy
Author:  plexiglass [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 7:29 am ]
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My reply
Quote:
I'm so sad... you broke my heart already, haha. I have some friends visiting from New York next week and I will be showing them around. How about we go out Friday? I am going to take you to the best restaurant in Singapore (mcdonalds)
Author:  kasabi [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 3:07 pm ]
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Let us know how things turn out.
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