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| Author: | Dantes [ Sun Nov 18, 2007 10:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re-building attraction? |
Okay im totally new to these forums and ive only been reading up on this PUA stuff for a little over a month, however ive learned a lot. Earlier this year I had a HB9 in one of my high school classes and her and I were totally interested in each other and we even went out on a date. Everyone was jealous of me that I was able to be so close with this girl that many guys have failed with. Well after about 3 months of a solid relationship, things started to fall apart. We ended up "just being friends" and she got bored of me. I tried to hang out with her over the summer but she didn't return any of my calls or emails. Recently ive been reading up on "The game" and "mystery method" and I feel that I should try and use my new skills to win her back. Ive already had lots of success with other girls but they were all 7s or lower, If I try to attract the hb9 again (she is in one of my classes this year again) then it will be a good test for me to see if im ready to move on however im kind of nervous to approach her after such a long time of absence from her. We still smile at each other and make eye contact however we havent had a conversation or really talked much other than the occasional awkward "hi". Ive given her the "cold SPAM", I dont look at her or talk to her at all and that has had some success as she sometimes goes out of her way to talk to me or find eye contact with me. I see her on a daily bases. I still dont really no where to go from her so plesae help. *Short version* I am planning on using some of my new found PUA techniques on one of my ex's, I think we still have some sort of attraction toward eachother and this time I wont mess it up. So can some one please try and guide me through the situation. |
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| Author: | manutdfan [ Sun Nov 18, 2007 10:49 pm ] |
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hey mate look im just a newbie so ignore me if you want, im just gonna give my opinion on what you should do. neg her a little. what negs to do i havnt learnt that yet, but something that can get some giggles out for her to like think "god, i forgot he was funny" but what i would do (after putting my dilemma on this forum) would be to pump up the kino. touch her.. make her want you'd be her lover. what would be a great score (again, in my opinion) would be if you would be talking to someone prettier than her in front of her. there, with an opener you would memorise, a good routine and some good conversation (about a subject, a teacher, a sport, whatever) could get her talking to you good, and most importantly, in front of her. kino is very very important. |
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| Author: | gravesRR7 [ Sun Nov 18, 2007 11:39 pm ] |
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I disagree with some of that. I would not escalate Kino just yet. It would be akward for her to have her ex touching her. take a step back. assuming that you've had enough time apart (I would recommend about a month). then show her that you are a high value male with DHV's you can do this several ways. But being with other women is good. Being with many of your male friends is good. Being good to your loved ones, et etc. try searching for ways to DHV (demonstrate higher value) |
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