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| Author: | kingafc11 [ Sun Nov 18, 2007 9:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | AFC behavior advice welcome |
First post...im a college student and a classic afc. ive tried the pua thing and just couldnt gather the stones to pull kino, escalation or anything. in fact i usually get stuck in the attraction stage. i have had a couple hook ups but they basically picked up on me. yesterday went out looking to sarge and flopped a couple times. their friends were trying harder than they were...guess i stayed with too much dhv/trying to win the group over. basically gave up when met sumone outside the party getting air. HB7.5/8 talked for about two hours, outside sitting on the grass. then her friend calls her to leave. shes about to run off but asks for my number and we exchange. then she asks me if i want to leave with her to dance at a club. i decline and say that i dont know how to dance. she comes back in 20 minutes and says the clubs was horrible. talk and play pong for another 2 hrs when her friend drags her home. we part ways saying it was nice meeting you and shake hands. overall thought it was horrendous guess the questions are: is her asking for my number an ioi? what should i do from here? only had about 2/3 ioi's but thinking of calling her monday for dinner then a bar. suggestions? |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Sun Nov 18, 2007 9:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Indicators of Interest |
IOI's- she asked for you name at some point which is an IOI, she spent about 4 hours with you, that's an IOI, she asked you for your phone number that's an IOI, besides all the other IOI you probably missed her doing like for example: Did she reinitiate conversation with you in those two hours (probably), Did she smile at you, touch her hair, giggle, introduce you to her friends? All IOI's!!!! You had more than enough IOI's there for you to kiss close, and kino esclatate but I'm glad she number closed you. She's definately interested! Wait a few days and call her up when you are out with friends and invite her to tag along. J SMOOTH |
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| Author: | kingafc11 [ Sun Nov 18, 2007 11:26 pm ] |
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thanks man. she did do those things now that you mention it. although i dont think she touched her hair or showed any nlp signals. probably going to text her tonight saying, "thanks for entertaining me saturday. had fun. btw you should come to <bar> on monday" theres probably alot wrong with what im about to send lemme kno if you have any suggestions |
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| Author: | 96Firebird [ Sun Nov 18, 2007 11:41 pm ] |
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Don't text her, call her. If anything, text her asking what she's doing. If she is available to talk (ie. not in a movie, not out to dinner, etc...), call. But I wouldn't contact her just yet, wait another day or so. |
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| Author: | M_blues09 [ Sun Nov 18, 2007 11:43 pm ] |
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dont text her just call on monday. do wat fire bird said |
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