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| Author: | J_Money [ Sun Nov 18, 2007 6:43 pm ] |
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there is this HB10 at my school the only problem is that she is kinda outta my league and we have never spoken how should i go about and approach her |
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| Author: | The Wild One [ Sun Nov 18, 2007 6:45 pm ] |
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You need a new mindset, and a PUA out look on women. This statement shows neediness and a lack of skill. Not to bust your balls but you need private help to close this one. PM me with more details about this girl and situation for help. |
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| Author: | PrettyBoy41 [ Mon Nov 19, 2007 8:14 am ] |
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ya, check out what wild has to say. I'm probably just reiterate what he says, but I'll say it any way. First of all man, you need to build some character and balls. Confidence attracts women, and let me tell you, no one is out of your league. If you approach her thinking she is superior to you, what you say will come out that way, and she will believe it too. Think of it this way, she is attracted to you, you just need to show her. Learn some basic attraction and interaction methods, find out what little things to do that are subtle yet effective. I'm talkin about Negs, DHV, alpha, cocky funny, that kinda stuff. heres how I might approach if I were you: come up to her as she walks, walk shoulder to shoulder with her and begin, you: "Hi, I'm _______" her: "Hey, I'm ______" "tell me something _____, do you always _______" (point out something different/funny she is doing or does) "Oh haha ya i guess, thats just how i _____" Now, what you have accomplished by doing this is, one, established value. By approaching her with confidence, expecting her to respond without concern for otherwise, in an upbeat way you demonstrate alpha male qualities. second, you Demonstrated Higher Value (DHV) by pointing out a flaw or something she has. and lastly you were able to make her comfortable in your presence by making her laugh or at least smile or blush or something. Now, if she responds a little less humbley, and acts a little arrogent, just act surprised at her slight hostility, tell her she should relax, lifes a lot more fun that way and that you just wanted to say hi, talk to her, w/e. Ok, I just gave you 1 possible way to open her, or 2 maybe. The rest you have learn and develop yourself, it's the best way to learn, but be yourself, and be confident. Remember, shes the one that desires you, not vise versa. good luck, PB |
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| Author: | The Raphael [ Mon Nov 19, 2007 9:15 am ] |
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Great advic Pretty Boy! |
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