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Ok I'm really new at this so don't jump at me for asking this but I wanna know if this girl I know still likes me.
ok so basically last year I liked this girl, and I knew for a fact she was into me, but... I was really shy and the entire school year went by and I didn't talk to her... (yes I had approach anxiety with 1 girl for an entire year...) during the summer she got a boyfriend but like a month later broke up with him. I thought I had lost my chances with her due to being a pussy, but recently she started staring at me a lot. like I saw her staring at me from across the bus stop. then on another day at school I caught her looking at me again and this time she immediately gave one of the hair touching ioi's. this same thing also happened like a week later, and today I saw her staring at me from far away but when I got closer she looked away.
the reason why I ask this is because there was one instance last year where I talked to her but due to me being nervous I acted kinda weird lol... so I thought I had fucked up. (if it helps on a scale from 1-10 she's a 10) so is she still into me? and her best friend is a major cock block how should I handle the her?
If you are new to the community, WELCOME. You are now learning the most important set of skills you'll need in your entire life.ok so basically last year I liked this girl, and I knew for a fact she was into me, but... I was really shy and the entire school year went by and I didn't talk to her... (yes I had approach anxiety with 1 girl for an entire year...) during the summer she got a boyfriend but like a month later broke up with him. I thought I had lost my chances with her due to being a pussy, but recently she started staring at me a lot. like I saw her staring at me from across the bus stop. then on another day at school I caught her looking at me again and this time she immediately gave one of the hair touching ioi's. this same thing also happened like a week later, and today I saw her staring at me from far away but when I got closer she looked away.
the reason why I ask this is because there was one instance last year where I talked to her but due to me being nervous I acted kinda weird lol... so I thought I had fucked up. (if it helps on a scale from 1-10 she's a 10) so is she still into me? and her best friend is a major cock block how should I handle the her?
About your question...well, I could try to convince you about why you shouldnt have a scarcity mentality going on. I could try to show you that HB10 don't exist. I could tell you to go read some material to improve your game (while giving you the sources, of course). But I won't do any of that.
Instead, I will tell you what you want to hear.
If she is looking at you (which means that you are looking back at her) it means that she could be interested. In general we tend to dismiss anything that doesn't catch our attention, so by her starting at you, it's obvious that she's looking for something.
Now, just because she is "watching" you, doesn't mean that if you have the chance to talk to her, anything you say may work. Which means that you should at least have a minor game plan to get the conversation going. Maybe to hold it for a bit too. So, openers, routines, among others could be useful.
In terms of her cock-blocking friends, well, when you're in school they are inevitable. Have you considered befriending the cock-blocker? How about a wingman? How about going straight to your target and talking to her no matter what the friends do?
You definitely have some options, but if you decide to be brave, you have a 50/50 chance of making things happen.
I know I said I wasnt going to try to convince you of anything, but please reconsider what I said about the scarcity mentality. It may look that way, but I guarantee you that there are more women out there, and getting them might take less frustration than getting the one you're obsessed about.
Hope it helps my friend.
Good luck.
