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Author:  Min0 [ Wed Sep 21, 2011 5:13 am ]
Post subject:  how to game shy girls?
With teasing them I would appear as an asshole... with touching or sexual talk would make them feel uncomfortable.
Is being a nice guy works the best in this situation?

What strategies or patterns do you use when dealing with this kind of girls?
Author:  Defy [ Wed Sep 21, 2011 9:19 am ]
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If she is attracted to you, she will follow your lead. No matter how shy she is.
Author:  dude the dude [ Wed Sep 21, 2011 3:13 pm ]
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I'd say that the comfort part is even more important with a shy girl.
Author:  tippicanoe [ Wed Sep 21, 2011 11:57 pm ]
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Game as normal. Be confident. Before my pick up days I was at this party and there was this HB10. She talked to me and everything seemed nice, but then we played a game of darts. She wouldn't play even though she had practiced and was trying to be good. I played and even though I sucked. I didn't care and had fun with it. Long story short she tried to number close me at the end of the night. I reverted to AFCdom and fucked it up. I wish I had a time machine to go back and tell myself not to fuck it up, but i digress. I think the reason was I had the confidence to suck or succeed at darts and have fun with it, a quality she couldn't have but wanted. I am really not sure what else I could have done to get her so interested (the convo was simple exchange of info about each other). So she admired me and wanted to hang out with me. Therefor when trying to game a shy girl be confident and don't be shy. Posses the qualities she secretly wants (who wants to be shy? Confidence is way better). She will admire you for it and want to be with you.
Author:  Veracity [ Thu Sep 22, 2011 4:31 am ]
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I am trying to game a HB9-10 Shy girl right now. I don't have a facebook or her phone number so its hard. She recently brokeup with her BF so now its my time to shine! I need a gameplan someone help :)
Author:  Min0 [ Thu Sep 22, 2011 5:01 am ]
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Game as normal. Be confident. Before my pick up days I was at this party and there was this HB10. She talked to me and everything seemed nice, but then we played a game of darts. She wouldn't play even though she had practiced and was trying to be good. I played and even though I sucked. I didn't care and had fun with it. Long story short she tried to number close me at the end of the night. I reverted to AFCdom and fucked it up. I wish I had a time machine to go back and tell myself not to fuck it up, but i digress. I think the reason was I had the confidence to suck or succeed at darts and have fun with it, a quality she couldn't have but wanted. I am really not sure what else I could have done to get her so interested (the convo was simple exchange of info about each other). So she admired me and wanted to hang out with me. Therefor when trying to game a shy girl be confident and don't be shy. Posses the qualities she secretly wants (who wants to be shy? Confidence is way better). She will admire you for it and want to be with you.
time machine... if I could put my thinking to like 5 years younger me... well past is past - It doesn't matter!
With being confident - yeah I'm with you 100%. What I m noticing now is that I have hard time using negs, teasing, or switching convo towards more sexual way.

Exchange info... yeah it takes important part in it... I find it boring doing only it and not really getting girl emotionally involved in conversation.

Can't see how it would work if she is not immediately attracted...
Author:  tippicanoe [ Thu Sep 22, 2011 6:20 pm ]
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time machine... if I could put my thinking to like 5 years younger me... well past is past - It doesn't matter!
With being confident - yeah I'm with you 100%. What I m noticing now is that I have hard time using negs, teasing, or switching convo towards more sexual way.

Exchange info... yeah it takes important part in it... I find it boring doing only it and not really getting girl emotionally involved in conversation.

Can't see how it would work if she is not immediately attracted...
I didn't say it made a whole lot of sense, but it is true. I am guessing there is missing info on my part. My brother told her some stuff and that might have something to do with it, but it was so long ago he probably wouldn't even remember. I'm guessing he gave me some strong social proof and some other boosting, and since it wasn't me bragging about myself it came across really good. Not sure but that has never happened to me again so I figure there was something else going on too.

Now I switch between exchanging info, observations and routines. That keeps things from being boring and gives a lot more consistent results. And I like to nonverbally escalate before verbal escalation. As for the negging and teasing, be really playful about it. You are trying to flirt with her not fuck with her head. Theres a big difference but a fine line. I would hold back a little on the negs since they are supposed to be used based on a girls confidence level, not her hotness level. The two just are intertwined since they have a large affect on each other, the hotter the girl, the more likely she gets hit on frequently, the more confident she is about it. A shy girl is unconfident about it usually because she talks to guys less and doesn't get hit on as frequently as her hotness level would lead you to believe so you should neg a little less than usual to compensate. Otherwise game as normal.
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