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Author:  tippicanoe [ Wed Sep 21, 2011 4:19 am ]
Post subject:  Should I have a Facebook?
I suck at facebooking. It just doesn't interest me at all and I always view it as an extremely shallow way to connect with people. When I did have a facebook I didn't check it for months at a time sometimes and never used many of it's functions. I realized recently that facebook is a great way to interact with women because it is in between the comfort of stranger and number close, so I am considering getting it back up and running. My worry is that I will fall into my old habit of not using it properly or enough and DLVing due the misuse of it. PUA's what do you think?
Author:  P-Style [ Wed Sep 21, 2011 6:12 am ]
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Hellz no. The game is played infield.
Author:  0uch [ Wed Sep 21, 2011 8:43 am ]
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Hellz no. The game is played infield.
Disagree! Yeah, game is played infield, but Facebook can be a great DHV without bragging.


Only people that will argue with me are people who sit at home and play video games all day, then comes night and is sarging time.

If you have a interesting lifestyle, you will have women you sarge and add on facebook asking you on Day 2's. For example, I have pictures of me surfing, snowboarding, riding dirt bikes, and riding jet skies, and of course, partying! I do all them because is fun, not to get women. But, after adding a girl on facebook, they see my profile, they know my lifestyle. They will hint at me, they wanna do one of those things with me by saying something like, "you ride dirt bikes? I always wanted to ride one of those."

Easy set up for day 2. And I am taking her to do something fun, and a place where doucebags will not move in on my girl, and where guys don't normally take her, like dinners or bars.


Oh, and if you don't go on facebook much, is alright. If you have a smart phone, is will automatically keep you up to date. I hardly go on it on my PC.
Author:  ak666 [ Wed Sep 21, 2011 1:11 pm ]
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As above. I have Facebook. I have just enough stuff on "public" so if a girl who liked me checks me out she knows (a) its the right person (b) has stuff public which is appealing to the kind of woman I want to attract.

Lots of women who you meet socially will try check you out on Facebook.

If you have a sucky profile its not helping you.

Mine is a marketing tool as much as a way of keeping up to date with friends who moved away and all that.

Its amazing what gets noticed. A week ago or so I added a model as a friend and she accepted. Its her "professional" profile and she lives in another country so no need to get excited. Anyway, today I post some stuff and she comments. I comment back and she responds x3 or so. So now on my facebook wall for all to see is me having a slightly flirty conversation with a professional model.

Girls who are checking me out by Facebook see - woah, this guy knows models, and they dig him. He is a high value guy.

Yeah, its random luck to get it, but I'm still pleased.

Likewise if a friend has a lot of hot women on his friend list, post cool stuff to his wall, the hot girls will see it. Make sure you are tagged in his photos if you are looking positive in them, and de-tag any where you look a gimp. Then when you meet them for real they already have in mind you are that cool guy.

I wouldn't say its the great seduction tool of the world, but I find it is good for some elements of your game.

Disclaimer: as with everything i post - YMMV and I'm a newbie!
Author:  Defy [ Wed Sep 21, 2011 1:17 pm ]
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Agree with everything ak666 and 0uch have said.

In my opinion it also depends on how old you are. Being in high school/college these days and not having a facebook is look upon as weird.
Author:  -enjoi- [ Wed Sep 21, 2011 1:19 pm ]
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honestly if you're not going to use it, what's the point in having one? as stated above, the game is played in-field anyway.
Author:  ak666 [ Wed Sep 21, 2011 1:24 pm ]
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I'm 'bout 40.

In real life I look mid 30s

In my photos I look 30.

I like girls who are younger than me. Not creepy younger, but say 26-34.

They are all on Facebook.

Tell her your name and she kind find you on Facebook if she wants to hook up. Seems just a bit more appropriate with some women now than the whole phone numbers thing which I still find a bit "clumsy" when you are trying to leave and leave a good impression, not a memory of you struggling with your phone address book...

And it looks like you couldn't really care if they do or not, which most times makes them want to. :)

Its strongest I think if they are friends of friends at least. But "YMMV" and all.
Author:  magnum45 [ Wed Sep 21, 2011 2:10 pm ]
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Yes. If you wish to become more social then make a facebook page. It will help you stay in contact with people and attend more parties.
Author:  watusippin? [ Wed Sep 21, 2011 5:14 pm ]
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lol wtf... exactly the opposite answers I got when I made a thread asking the same question..
Author:  tippicanoe [ Wed Sep 21, 2011 11:27 pm ]
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Okay that settles it. I am getting back on the facebook bandwagon. I agree with the people who say the game is played infield, but I am also in college and probably the only person I know who doesn't use facebook. In addition as long as I use it regularly it will have little chance of DHVing me. And watusippin? how could you get an opposite answer to this question? There is two completely different arguments here that are already opposite.
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