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Author:  Campari [ Tue Sep 20, 2011 9:02 am ]
Post subject:  one night stand, no follow up?
I got a question, I think I did everything right that night. The girl liked me, we had a one night stand. She texted me a few times I did some neg's in return, we were making fun. But the thing is I was pulling a prank on her by telling her my bday is on the same day as hers. Later on I told her it was joke and I was just checking if I could fool her that easy. Her reply was that she wasn't fooled cause she is dating a guy at the moment who's bday is on the same day as her fathers bday. So I'm confused why is she telling me she dating?
Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Tue Sep 20, 2011 9:04 am ]
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she thinks you are gaming her, so she wanted you to feel gamed
Author:  Campari [ Tue Sep 20, 2011 9:08 am ]
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Okay... so how can I give her the feeling that I'm not...
Author:  Campari [ Tue Sep 20, 2011 1:54 pm ]
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Thanks for the fast responds, but now I'm not sure how to change this situation I'm in...
Author:  skills360 [ Tue Sep 20, 2011 2:53 pm ]
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What did you text after she said she is dating someone, what was your reaction? And you have a mild case of onitis...
Author:  Campari [ Tue Sep 20, 2011 9:05 pm ]
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A mild case of onitis? I didn't realy react on it cause she started talking about other things like cooking and that she half indo half dutch etc. so I let it slide, I told her that she's gonna cook something nice for me one of these days, than she talks allot again and finnished with i'm not going to cook for you ;-) I'm not going to cook for you at least for 6 months... and than she told me that she really needed tot get back to work, wished me a fine day (this time without kisses)... I finish with nothing special (aight go get them). That was it...

So now I'm not sure how to tackle this problem...
Author:  skills360 [ Tue Sep 20, 2011 9:19 pm ]
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A mild case of onitis? I didn't realy react on it cause she started talking about other things like cooking and that she half indo half dutch etc. so I let it slide, I told her that she's gonna cook something nice for me one of these days, than she talks allot again and finnished with i'm not going to cook for you ;-) I'm not going to cook for you at least for 6 months... and than she told me that she really needed tot get back to work, wished me a fine day (this time without kisses)... I finish with nothing special (aight go get them). That was it...

So now I'm not sure how to tackle this problem...


Yes, exactly a mild case of onitis, you are too invested into her, and she is starting to gain the upper hand, and to feel the mild case of onitis, women are like computer mouth they can feel, sense everything..You have to go back to neutral, you do not give a fuck state...With that being said, you are still in play, she is just playing the game, be careful if you are projecting game/pua stuff that will just put her guard up, and game back... Anyways this is my opinion! i may be wrong. By the way as soon as you start posting in a forum questions about a girl, that is when the mild case of onitis usually begins..By the way now that she is a bit more challenging, you like her more which works against you.
Author:  Campari [ Tue Sep 20, 2011 10:34 pm ]
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You may be right, the thing is... I got several (4) games running this is just one of them. But I wanted to close this one fast cause I thought we already slept so I can close it fast and keep going. Maybe thats where I made the mistake...

Still, do you have a good strategy for for closing these sort of situations?

I'm just starting to learn how to be a PUA, just read the book and surft on the internet. The one thing I got going for myself is that girls think I'm a goodlooking dude most of the time and I'm not a shy guy.
Author:  skills360 [ Tue Sep 20, 2011 11:19 pm ]
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You may be right, the thing is... I got several (4) games running this is just one of them. But I wanted to close this one fast cause I thought we already slept so I can close it fast and keep going. Maybe thats where I made the mistake...

Still, do you have a good strategy for for closing these sort of situations?

I'm just starting to learn how to be a PUA, just read the book and surft on the internet. The one thing I got going for myself is that girls think I'm a goodlooking dude most of the time and I'm not a shy guy.

Best thing is to go to neutral do not give a fuck state again, like whatever, but do not bluff has to be real, looks are not that important if your game is not tight, women are not as visual as men, you are still in play with that girl, you can have 10 girls, onitis do not affect the quantity of women you are with... i had at one point 7 girls and my current girl gave me onitis(mild case)... So i did what i told you, good book david d double your dating. shit! one more posivility is the anty slut defense, she slept with you to soon, so she may want to gain back some dignity and stuff, could be as well.
Author:  Campari [ Wed Sep 21, 2011 12:49 pm ]
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Hahaha.. well thank for the tips, my first thought was ASD (maybe a bit cockey to think like that). I'm just gonna play it neutral like you sayed and keep her a bit on edge. She'll just gonna have to work some more for it. I'll keep you posted on the strategy and if it worked or not.
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