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| Author: | tippicanoe [ Tue Sep 20, 2011 3:21 am ] |
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So I # closed a girl a few weeks ago and the first two dates went okay. I did really well the first date but the second date was during the day and didn't end on the best note.( I went for a kiss, she presented a cheek, I pulled back puzzled since we already made out, and she kissed me) Then for the next three weeks whenever I tried to hang out she had a reason to not hang out. First it was a weekend dedicated to her roommate, then it was going to a frat party. I got upset at this point called her on it and she claimed she was interested. I decided enough was enough and broke it off. I haven't felt right about it since though and here is why, I only texted her the day of so she may of actually had plans. At the same time she could have brought me along to any of those events. So did she flake on me? Looking back on the facts it seems like a flake but my emotions are getting me on this one and I want an outside opinion. |
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| Author: | skills360 [ Tue Sep 20, 2011 3:39 am ] |
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she is not interested enough(key word)! does not mean you can get her, what type of dates you went on?? |
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| Author: | tippicanoe [ Tue Sep 20, 2011 6:03 am ] |
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The first night we wandered my apartment complex and found a party (theres always a party going on, everyday of the week, it's like living in a bar). Second date we walked around during the day and then went back to her place to talk/ she wanted to watch television. The watching TV should have been a hint. I'm gonna try to avoid day dates from now on, theres not much you can do during the day thats fun. |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Tue Sep 20, 2011 6:19 am ] |
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good work on getting the dates man, seems like she is flaking on you, just play her game and seed that your doing cool shit and don't invite her, start withdrawing contact more and more, until the frame of her chasing is re-set, if this doesn't happen then she is just not that interested, but still ping her from time to time, for interest/meetups if she flakes forever ohh well, have no gauge on your situation but seems to me like she wanted to have sex on the second date but you didn't deliver, tv/watch a movie = sex in girl talk |
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| Author: | skills360 [ Tue Sep 20, 2011 2:20 pm ] |
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Quote: The first night we wandered my apartment complex and found a party (theres always a party going on, everyday of the week, it's like living in a bar). Second date we walked around during the day and then went back to her place to talk/ she wanted to watch television. The watching TV should have been a hint. I'm gonna try to avoid day dates from now on, theres not much you can do during the day thats fun.
What happens is if you do not have sex, right away, you start looking afc, like you got no game, you should have done it in one of those 2 encounters, confidence is one of the things women like the most, by you taking too long to do something, you fall into afc territory.. |
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| Author: | tippicanoe [ Wed Sep 21, 2011 3:58 am ] |
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It's been a while since I actually dated someone I was interested in so give me a break. Figured I had at least another date to F close. Anyways I will remember that for next time and will be sure to sexually escalate more on the second date. Did plenty the first date (got boob kino in the middle of the party  ) I am 90% sure she is ignoring me now too so I am just going to move on. Thanks for the replies anyways overall its good advice.
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