PUA Forum
https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/

She is perfect, she is driving me CRAZY/ #-closed, what now
https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=102012		 Page 1 of 1
Author:  Impetumus [ Mon Sep 19, 2011 4:04 pm ]
Post subject:  She is perfect, she is driving me CRAZY/ #-closed, what now
Situation:


I was out on Saturday and I was with 6 girls (I learned more in that night then I have in 1 month from the PUA material).
I was dancing, making them laugh, and then SHE came in.
She is gorgeus. She is not wearing make-up, not wearing super tight clothes, but somehow she gets a lot, a lot of attention. Guys were just popping out out of nowhere.

I knew her from before, I've seen her three or four times, and we were just like teasing, we are both alpha leaders, so there was connection between us from the start.

She is of course, an expert manipulator, so I knew that IOI's she was giving me in the beginning of the night, were there just to tool me, so I pushed her off by saying:"Hey, hands off the merchandise, that's 20$ every time you touch."

She looked at me weird and gone somewhere. I knew I have to introduce some jealousy or I'd lose her, so I did, and she came back to me.
After whole night of push-pull, I thought it was on, so I tried Mystery's k-close by saying:"Would you like to kiss me". She looked at me and said:"How about a kiss in the cheek", and I was like:"Sure"

I didn't wanted that it becomes weird between us, so I pushed her a little, she came back and I continued gaming, I gave her my necklace, and she said that next time we see, she'll give it back to me...


Problem:

I have her #, and we agreed to go to the Sushi bar, (I intentionally avoided coffee shop, I don't like them) and now I don't know what to do...
My intuition yells:"Dude, she is attracted to you", but somehow when I saw the way she was tooling the rest of the guys, it got me thinking:"What if I am being tooled also?"

I don't know why hasn't she accepted any of those guys who were hitting on her. Some of them were really good-looking.


My first message to her was:"Why do I have you saved in my phone as -My little shit :)-"

She replied with a smile:"Probably due to alcohol or somethinng like that."



So, what should I do next, how to ask her out?


Thanks for reading guys, every bit of information helps... :)
Author:  Defy [ Mon Sep 19, 2011 4:17 pm ]
Post subject: 
Lol, you gave her your necklace. Forget about locking props, other than holding your drink.

She seems like someone who enjoys attention.

I think most of the stuff here is in your head, just your perception.

Has she actually shown any interest in you?
Author:  Impetumus [ Mon Sep 19, 2011 4:50 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Lol, you gave her your necklace. Forget about locking props, other than holding your drink.

She seems like someone who enjoys attention.

I think most of the stuff here is in your head, just your perception.

Has she actually shown any interest in you?



Well, I don't think it is in my head, because guys who were watching her all the time were constantly whispering me:"Dude, she wants you."

And when we were all dancing, she was always standing right beside me, when I squizzed her hand, she squizzed it back, if I let go of her hand, she still holds it. There were three guys with us, and two guys sort of just barged in our social circle and started hitting on her, and then I went to protect her from them and she came with me, she blew every other guy, we seriously had a blast.

And when I started approaching other girls, she was constantly bugging me, interrupting it.
I don't know dude, maybe I misread the signals, but if it's for real, what do I do now?

Look, necklace is pretty cheap, I just wanted her to remember me, and she did.
She now sent me a message in which she reminds me that I need to tell her about her nickname.

Any suggestions?
Author:  Defy [ Mon Sep 19, 2011 5:05 pm ]
Post subject: 
Well, I would call her right now and say "I've been studying the whole day (which I have), and I need a break. I want to see you right now." And shut up after that. If you hear anything other than "Sounds great", or give you really solid reason and suggest some other day, she isn't interested. (credit to 60)

Stop reading Mystery. Read 60's stuff. You'll understand things on much deeper level.

Srecno! :wink:

Another thing. Taking her to a sushi bar is great, but the location itself isn't that important. The whole avoid coffee dates serves to avoid that awkward courtship frame. One thing a "date" should have is FUN. I was with a girl I'm sarging in an internet caffe last night, and we both enjoyed it cause we had fun. No routines and shit.
Author:  Impetumus [ Mon Sep 19, 2011 5:17 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Well, I would call her right now and say "I've been studying the whole day (which I have), and I need a break. I want to see you right now." And shut up after that. If you hear anything other than "Sounds great", or give you really solid reason and suggest some other day, she isn't interested. (credit to 60)

Stop reading Mystery. Read 60's stuff. You'll understand things on much deeper level.

Srecno! :wink:

That sounds great, I asked her out already, so I am waiting her to reply.
Well Mystery is the guy who I owe everything, this girls wouldn't even even call me if I haven't been reading his stuff.
Can you send me some links for 60yoc?

Hvala buraz... :wink:
Author:  DJ_Z [ Mon Sep 19, 2011 5:20 pm ]
Post subject: 
Chill. You are worrying about whether this girl is playing you before anything's happened. You seem smart enough to recognize when a girl is just leading you on and have the maturity to walk away from it, so just go about your business. If she does anything to raise a red flag, forget her. But you haven't written anything other than "I gamed a girl and am trying for a day2, what if she's a horrible manipulative bitch?" Man show some optimism and roll with it!
Author:  Impetumus [ Mon Sep 19, 2011 5:22 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Chill. You are worrying about whether this girl is playing you before anything's happened. You seem smart enough to recognize when a girl is just leading you on and have the maturity to walk away from it, so just go about your business. If she does anything to raise a red flag, forget her. But you haven't written anything other than "I gamed a girl and am trying for a day2, what if she's a horrible manipulative bitch?" Man show some optimism and roll with it!


Sure, why not, so you think that I should give her some indicator of interest. Ok, I'll give it to her... :)
Author:  Defy [ Mon Sep 19, 2011 5:25 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Well Mystery is the guy who I owe everything
I know man. I am grateful to him as well. I was so pissed off earlier when I would hear people bashing him. But, the fact is that he is not the man you want to model yourself after.

The thing is, after a while things click and you realize that MM is bullshit. It's like the transition from grade school to middle school. Forget everything that you think you know.

And don't text her asking her out. Call her.

PM me your email and I'll send you 60's material.

Do me a favour. Let us know how it went. Write detailed FR of what happens tonight.
Author:  Impetumus [ Tue Sep 20, 2011 2:48 am ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Quote:
Well Mystery is the guy who I owe everything
Do me a favour. Let us know how it went. Write detailed FR of what happens tonight.



We were texting today (I personally hate it, but I still do it from time to time) and we agreed that we'll go to a sushi bar on Friday and later maybe to the movies with girl friend of ours...
I will probably see her on wednesday, and we'll go out, I have social cirlce game pretty tight, but day-two scares the shit out of me...

I'll keep you posted. Thanks guys... :)
Author:  pumpington [ Tue Sep 20, 2011 7:26 am ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Quote:
Lol, you gave her your necklace. Forget about locking props, other than holding your drink.

She seems like someone who enjoys attention.

I think most of the stuff here is in your head, just your perception.

Has she actually shown any interest in you?



Well, I don't think it is in my head, because guys who were watching her all the time were constantly whispering me:"Dude, she wants you."

And when we were all dancing, she was always standing right beside me, when I squizzed her hand, she squizzed it back, if I let go of her hand, she still holds it. There were three guys with us, and two guys sort of just barged in our social circle and started hitting on her, and then I went to protect her from them and she came with me, she blew every other guy, we seriously had a blast.

And when I started approaching other girls, she was constantly bugging me, interrupting it.
I don't know dude, maybe I misread the signals, but if it's for real, what do I do now?

Look, necklace is pretty cheap, I just wanted her to remember me, and she did.
She now sent me a message in which she reminds me that I need to tell her about her nickname.

Any suggestions?
GOOD WORK MAN, GREAT JOB
wait, what? she blew every other guy?
wait thats not good, she should be blowing you,
invite her out, try to get her back to your house to ''watch a movie'' or ''hear this cool song you have to show her'' or to see this ''tv show'' or to check out your awesome ''paint job in your house'' then escalate to some cuddling into some making out then go down her pants and FINISH HER!! I assume you read MM and know how to deal with LMR, here is your chance, if she flakes on you she is not interested, if she doesn't flake she is interested and it is your chance,

GOOD LUCK BRA
Author:  Impetumus [ Sat Sep 24, 2011 2:54 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Well, I would call her right now and say "I've been studying the whole day (which I have), and I need a break. I want to see you right now." And shut up after that. If you hear anything other than "Sounds great", or give you really solid reason and suggest some other day, she isn't interested. (credit to 60)

Stop reading Mystery. Read 60's stuff. You'll understand things on much deeper level.

Srecno! :wink:

Another thing. Taking her to a sushi bar is great, but the location itself isn't that important. The whole avoid coffee dates serves to avoid that awkward courtship frame. One thing a "date" should have is FUN. I was with a girl I'm sarging in an internet caffe last night, and we both enjoyed it cause we had fun. No routines and shit.




Hey, I've sent you my e-mail, I would really appriciate if you could send 60's material... :)
Author:  Impetumus [ Sat Sep 24, 2011 2:58 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
Lol, you gave her your necklace. Forget about locking props, other than holding your drink.

She seems like someone who enjoys attention.

I think most of the stuff here is in your head, just your perception.

Has she actually shown any interest in you?



Well, I don't think it is in my head, because guys who were watching her all the time were constantly whispering me:"Dude, she wants you."

And when we were all dancing, she was always standing right beside me, when I squizzed her hand, she squizzed it back, if I let go of her hand, she still holds it. There were three guys with us, and two guys sort of just barged in our social circle and started hitting on her, and then I went to protect her from them and she came with me, she blew every other guy, we seriously had a blast.

And when I started approaching other girls, she was constantly bugging me, interrupting it.
I don't know dude, maybe I misread the signals, but if it's for real, what do I do now?

Look, necklace is pretty cheap, I just wanted her to remember me, and she did.
She now sent me a message in which she reminds me that I need to tell her about her nickname.

Any suggestions?
GOOD WORK MAN, GREAT JOB
wait, what? she blew every other guy?
wait thats not good, she should be blowing you,
invite her out, try to get her back to your house to ''watch a movie'' or ''hear this cool song you have to show her'' or to see this ''tv show'' or to check out your awesome ''paint job in your house'' then escalate to some cuddling into some making out then go down her pants and FINISH HER!! I assume you read MM and know how to deal with LMR, here is your chance, if she flakes on you she is not interested, if she doesn't flake she is interested and it is your chance,

GOOD LUCK BRA






Thanks man, she called me out tonight. So, I got the attraction, got the number, now I'll try the kiss (again).
I am not a guy who likes relationships, but I already know she would be great girlfriend.

So, thanks man, I'll try it... :)
Author:  Aegis88 [ Sat Sep 24, 2011 10:12 pm ]
Post subject: 
Good luck man...I aint really fond of the Mystery kiss close even though it works every now and then. Think mostly about her body language and check out if she's interested. Post how it worked out ;)
Author:  Competition [ Sun Sep 25, 2011 9:05 am ]
Post subject: 
I'm sorry to say but you're all over the map and your insecurity shows in many ways. Your self-identity is not stable. You're not grounded. You're putting her on a pedestal. You should not have given her your necklace without getting something in exchange from her. Your question of what to do shows the degree of disarray you're in.

Let me ask you: what would you do if she was a 6 to you? Do exactly the same. Stop putting her on a pedestal. Sorry for bitter medicine but believe me you need it.
Page 1 of 1 All times are UTC
Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group
http://www.phpbb.com/