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Author:  PokerSlot [ Fri Sep 16, 2011 11:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Shot down on Facebook, redeemable?
Opened a girl I went to high school with on FB earlier and was shot down pretty hard. I still maintain that I played it right, but am curious if I can come back from this at all:

Me: I'm luring girls to the bar with candy. Which do you prefer, Skittles or M&M's?
Her: M&M's - peanut butter only.
Me: Alright, peanut butter it is, but I don't think you're ready for this jelly. ;) Text me
Friend: Ready for this jelly... Classic!
Her: I don't like jelly. Or texting. Thanks for playing! ;)
Friend: Snaaaaap!!!!
Author:  PokerSlot [ Fri Sep 16, 2011 11:27 pm ]
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I'm thinking "I just wanted to get a hold of you to return the red shoes you left under my house. I'll just give them to your sister."

All in all, I think negging is a good play here. Problem is that it's gotta be c&f for sure since this is all public on her wall and we have a lot of mutual friends. Being rejected is fine, being humiliated is not (although I could always erase the post since I started it lol).
Author:  Don Draper [ Sat Sep 17, 2011 6:12 pm ]
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Well, the start was wrong and then, everything went downhill after that.

What a train wreck, indeed.

But, you can always learn from the mistakes here.
Author:  thevibe [ Sat Sep 17, 2011 9:42 pm ]
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its ok bro i got shot down way harder than that im 18 a girl i went to elemantry added me she was my first crush ever we talket i was playful and funny she lol'd alot when i asket her out she said her parents didnt let her but i read on her wall like half an hour later her friend hooket her up with a date with onther guy and she deleted me but im not going to let one chick get me down
Author:  Warped Mindless [ Sun Sep 18, 2011 7:43 am ]
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To much silly games and to little genuine intent and connection.
Author:  lukeyx [ Sun Sep 18, 2011 11:42 am ]
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Quote:
I'm thinking "I just wanted to get a hold of you to return the red shoes you left under my house. I'll just give them to your sister."
that sounds creepy lol. You also asked her to text you way to soon.

Although, i'd use 'how can you not like jelly? must be boring too if you dont like texting neither'
Author:  Chris2k10 [ Sun Sep 18, 2011 4:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Shot down on Facebook, redeemable?
Quote:
Opened a girl I went to high school with on FB earlier and was shot down pretty hard. I still maintain that I played it right, but am curious if I can come back from this at all:

Me: I'm luring girls to the bar with candy. Which do you prefer, Skittles or M&M's?
Her: M&M's - peanut butter only.
Me: Alright, peanut butter it is, but I don't think you're ready for this jelly. ;) Text me
Friend: Ready for this jelly... Classic!
Her: I don't like jelly. Or texting. Thanks for playing! ;)
Friend: Snaaaaap!!!!
That as the most bullshit way to open a girl hahahaha.

You're doing it wrong. The key is to be direct and simple and genuine. From your opener, the girl can obviously tell you're just overcompensating.

ex: Hey I thought you looked interesting so I wanted to get to know you more.

That's pretty genuine, it's got a spark to it, and saves you time+brain power.
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