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| Author: | JNH [ Thu Sep 15, 2011 9:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Negging: when to neg and when not to neg? |
One thing I don't really seem to get is when to neg and when to stop negging. should I or should I not neg a girl who I talk to 1-on-1 (1 set), after we talk a while and get past the social hookpoint? In other words: when is the point to stop negging? |
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| Author: | JNH [ Thu Sep 15, 2011 9:15 pm ] |
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Or do I not neg at ALL in a 1-set? |
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| Author: | M2 [ Thu Sep 15, 2011 9:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Negging: when to neg and when not to neg? |
Quote: One think I don't really seem to get it when to neg and when to stop negging.
You need to calibrate before you neg, some girls can take it, some can't---it is only there to either respond to her neg, or- to bring her to your level or- to get through bitch shields....don't do it often and don't do it once you've reached rapport...after rapport playful teasing will suffice. A neg brings down the confidence of the girl, so she'll try and get it back. should I or should I not neg a girl who I talk to 1-on-1 (1 set), after we talk a while and get past the social hookpoint? When is the point to stop negging? Also- don't neg a 8 or below unless they act like they're 10's. |
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| Author: | Agent_Smith [ Fri Sep 16, 2011 3:16 pm ] |
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It's very type specific, so you can negative compliment (neg) whenever you like the only thing is you need to be socially aware enough to know if its helping the conversation or its hurting it. For example if the girl is having fun, laughing at your jokes and generally enjoying your company. no real reason to neg her. But if she is not listening not paying to much attention. to whip her ass back in line and get her focus and attention I would believe a neg would do the trick. I'm just sharing my opinion and again it really depends on the girl and the situation. |
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| Author: | P-Style [ Fri Sep 16, 2011 3:49 pm ] |
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When she's opened up it you can quit negging. As long as she's playing hard ball, you play hard ball. |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Fri Sep 16, 2011 6:16 pm ] |
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Girl is rude cut her down, girl is going a-d-d on you cut her down, girl is talking to you and responding well make her feel good, just read the situation, if a girl walks up to you and tells you you're cute and asks to buy you a drink and you start negging it shows you're socially retarded |
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| Author: | Ezo [ Fri Sep 16, 2011 6:52 pm ] |
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Ok... You are thinking of negs as something you have to do... You dont. Neg as little as possible. People here flex their PUA muscles and their fake inner game and think that a PU is some kind of a battle with you crying if you lose and her submitting as your sexslave if you win. So they wanna take the girl down. Newsflash, girls are not evil. They may talk tough but their bark is worse than their bite. Beneath that tough exterior is a person, easily damaged and scared shitless to seem like she has a lower value than the other girls in the place. SO she talks tough and keeps telling her that she has a high value, know what, that is exactly what green PUAs do. What I do, I dont neg unless it is absolutely necessary, if she clearly thinks that she is above my level. Apart from that, with any regular girl, I just dont buy her crap and I dont even listen as she starts BSing. So, if she challenges you, win. But dont overdo it. A pickup should be fun, it should be entertaining for both parts. The aim is not to destroy her selfconfidence and go for you because she doenst think she deserves better. The point is that she should recognize that you areat her level or above, and thus a good choice. |
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