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Author:  Partyboyitis [ Thu Sep 15, 2011 3:44 am ]
Post subject:  Really confused... Is she interested? Advice would be great!
I'm new to these forums so be gentle :)

Ok so I guess I should tell my story right?

Let's start. I met this girl about 2 months ago. As soon as she saw me she Litrally couldent take her eyes off me, litrally eye fucking me and the feeling was mutual. Now this girl is defiantly a 9 so I was a tiny bit intimidated never the less I went and spoke to her and we hit it off. At the end of the night I forgot to ask her number but got her facebook. 

After a couple of facebook interactions I got Her number and gave her a text. She text back the first time and then seriously started failing to text back after. She explained to me that she's useless at texting but we ended up meeting at a nightclub the following week hit it off again even tho I was negging her constantly. And we even talked about going on a date and that I should call her the next day to arrange it.

So I called her the next day . She picked up and we chatted. I was out with friends at the time so had to keep it short. She said to call back her back in a couple days because she's out of town and when she's back we'll hook up.

So I called her a couple days after and she dident pick up ( I called her twice) she didn't even return my call. Abit of a kick in the dick but shit happens and we move on :)

Moving on a month I randomly see again at the club but this time I Litrally ignore her and this seemed to really bug her so she started to flirt with my mate. I then did the noble thing and ended up flirted with her mate. Then we turn and catch each others eyes and we eye fuck for like 5 seconds straight until she turned away and blushed. Then she told me I look like a model tonight. I said nothing and dragged her over to me and we chatted and hit it off again.

We talked a lot, i would do my usual routine of being a asshole to her but also be funny. We danced, touched, flirted most of the night, she stuck to me like glue. I'd occasionally leave her to keep her wanting more. She said she wanted to hang out with me some time so I said 'yeah maybe, would be fun' So the next day I thought great were back on. This time I waited a few days after and called her twice and again no answer. (input angry face)

So I'm confused, I talk to other girls but I can't get this one out my mind! What do I do? I know she's useless with her phone. She told me that, but she could at least call back? I'm doing the non desperate thing and not calling everyday but I want answers and there's no way I can get them without her picking up that shitty phone!

Ok rant over any suggestions on my next move? 
Author:  0uch [ Thu Sep 15, 2011 6:22 am ]
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She is a party girl. Explains why she goes clubbing all the time.

All she wants is you to lead her and fuck her brains out. The second time you met her at the club for a date, you could have pulled her and screw her brains out. Always have something planed at your place when you know your meeting a girl at a club. I always do "after parties" and my place is stocked with alcohol and party music. Girls will not generally initiate the "pull"

Also, don't neg if you know the girl is into you. You can tease her, but you also need to build comfort, show that your interested in her, etc...
Author:  Partyboyitis [ Thu Sep 15, 2011 1:27 pm ]
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Hey 'ouch' thanks for the reply, made me laugh reading it :)

Your probably mostly right. The only problem I've got for the future is not knowing what club she's going to be at and when so am i going to have to go out as per usual and hopefully bump into her? Seriously don't want her to become my oneitis because I feel it creeping on haha so I'm going to forget about her and meet other girls for the time being.

Again thanks for the reply
Author:  Snake Doctor [ Thu Sep 15, 2011 3:21 pm ]
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Mate let me start off by saying that your problem is so easy that hurts how dumb you are being(sorry for not be that gentle not trying to offending or anything , just hoping to open your eyes) so here it goes.

So you said, both of you got a huge attraction you got her number, she gives a lot of I.O.I, she is 9, you arrange a meeting to go with her to a club to have some fun you literally eye fucked flirt, did all the possible things you could do except the BIG ONE. FUCKING GRAB HER AND KISS FFS, come on, she gives you all the I.O.I you let her stick you like glue, but hey … let’s just flirt and tease to a point when she is going to be fed up and think “what the hell is this guy waiting for, does he need a sign?, guess he isn’t man enough to be with a girl like me. Good friend tho.”Maybe when I feel blue I call him.” Come on man if you have another chance, go for it if you see one I.O.I jump on her, and then only then LET HER KEEP WANTING MORE. When she told you ,” look like a model tonight”. I said nothing and dragged her over to me(this was the part of the story I was hoping and geez THIS IS IT is going to kiss her yes, but w8 noooooooooooo. Main problem talking too much and not doing something about.

You said she is 9, she is use having all those guys trying to jump on her pants, but few have the balls to actually do it. So try it, you are waiting too much time she is starting to lose some attraction. And probably that why she flaked.
Author:  Partyboyitis [ Thu Sep 15, 2011 4:20 pm ]
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Hey hpm!

All you said was totally right. I should have man'd up I usually have no problems with 7/8's but I Was so wrapped up in trying to be a abit of an ass to her that I totally missed the opportunity to k-close, My thinking was that most guys just fall at het feet so I'll do the opposite. But I definatly overdone it.......if I see her again I will take you're advice and pounce!

Thanks!
Author:  Don Draper [ Thu Sep 15, 2011 6:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Really confused... Is she interested? Advice would be great!
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... She picked up and we chatted. I was out with friends at the time so had to keep it short. She said to call back her back in a couple days because she's out of town and when she's back we'll hook up.

So I called her a couple days after and she dident pick up ( I called her twice) she didn't even return my call. Abit of a kick in the dick but shit happens and we move on :)

Moving on a month I randomly see again at the club but this time I Litrally ignore her and this seemed to really bug her so she started to flirt with my mate. I then did the noble thing and ended up flirted with her mate. Then we turn and catch each others eyes and we eye fuck for like 5 seconds straight until she turned away and blushed. Then she told me I look like a model tonight. I said nothing and dragged her over to me and we chatted and hit it off again.

We talked a lot, i would do my usual routine of being a asshole to her but also be funny. We danced, touched, flirted most of the night, she stuck to me like glue. I'd occasionally leave her to keep her wanting more. She said she wanted to hang out with me some time so I said 'yeah maybe, would be fun' So the next day I thought great were back on. This time I waited a few days after and called her twice and again no answer. (input angry face)

So I'm confused, I talk to other girls but I can't get this one out my mind! What do I do? I know she's useless with her phone. She told me that, but she could at least call back? I'm doing the non desperate thing and not calling everyday but I want answers and there's no way I can get them without her picking up that shitty phone!

Ok rant over any suggestions on my next move? 
Look at the highlighted lines, those are the "defining moments" of your story.

Like the fact,that you failed to create even that much amount of required attraction and comfort that she didn't even take your phone call or call you back. So, lack of comfort level is the first strike.

The second bit was the whole bar incident, you were going really well, and then when she whipped out a compliment, you basically forgot all about the evening and her past actions and became her familiar dog. Make no mistakes, she was attracted because you weren't giving her the attention, she considered it a challenge to get it but as soon as you started doing that, she wrote you off. Strike two.

The final strike was the whole mentality and thought process of yours that if she just talked to you that night at the bar, then she would be attracted back to you again, and you called her and hey, look at that, the same result.

My advice is to forget all about this girl, she seems attention hungry and you could do better.
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