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| Author: | JuniorV [ Wed Sep 14, 2011 8:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | W.T.H am I supposed to do? |
Sup guys! I’ve never actually posted here before, only read what others have written, and also English is not my main? language but here it goes. I have this girl in my class (I’m 19 btw) who is super pretty with blonde hair, cute smile and an awesome body, and I’ve developed sort of crush. We’re a couple of friends; 3 guys and 5 girls who hang out with each other both in class and sometimes outside of it, and she is part of this group. The thing is it feels kind of awkward when it’s one of your friends with whom you see almost every day. I’m having big problems getting her to like-me like me. The conversation is always about the different classes and whatnot, but the biggest problem for me is that when you talk to one of “us”, the group, you’re talking with everyone in the group. If I try something it usually ends up with them laughing, at me. I can’t really seem to get anywhere. I hope you see my dilemma. If it's to any help she's a swimmer, and a quite good one at it. That means she spends almost everyday swimming after school. So technically I only see her (and the others) during class or on some weekends. And also, within the group there is no "alpha". There's always someone to assume the role though. |
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| Author: | superunknown88 [ Wed Sep 14, 2011 8:10 pm ] |
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Isolate her! Ask if she fancies meeting after this and so forth e.t.c. You have to start somewhere. Get to know her on 1 on 1 basis. |
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| Author: | P-Style [ Wed Sep 14, 2011 8:22 pm ] |
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tease and neg her while you're in the group. It will make you stand out to her. Do it just as often till she thinks you've got a problem with her. And then turn the hatin around in some lovin. Say to her make love not war and then smile. Game on broheem. |
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| Author: | somebody delete this shit [ Wed Sep 14, 2011 8:26 pm ] |
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it's called breaking rapport |
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| Author: | DJ_Z [ Wed Sep 14, 2011 9:21 pm ] |
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You're nineteen years old...and you use the term "like-me like me." Dude you have got to relax, it is not nearly as weird as you make it. Invite her to do something outside of school. You have her phone number, I'm assuming, so just do that. And what are you trying that gets people to laugh at you? Seriously, detach yourself and her from this group, because if you have to talk to 7 people at a time one girl is not gonna differentiate you from the others. Doesn't matter if she's blonde, brunette, short, tall, swimmer, singer, etc. Call her, invite her to do something with you, and make it just you and her. |
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