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| Author: | ZACKFREEFLO [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 7:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Surprise failed k-close what should i do? |
Basically we were set up by a mutual friend i took her to a school dance, and i thought we hit it off. She was opening up telling me about her family, how her parents are divorced etc so i figured i had built enough comfort. She was literally pulling me onto the dance floor all night the only mistake i might have made was leaving her alone a couple of times during the night. Tried a compliance test after taking her home when we were alone after she mentioned how my friend was making out with his girlfriend in the backseat as we drove home. She had her arms crossed that was the first bad sign but i decided to just ASK (stupid right) and she says she cant because she has a boyfriend, so i tell her that i'm not the jealous type and she says shes just faithful. So i give her a neg and as my friend comes to pick me up in my car she turns and says, "Thought i'd let you know you were looking good tonight". She was texting a couple times during the night and a friend of mine asked her and she said it was her boyfriend she was texting but he only told me the next day. Did i try too much too soon, did i mess up the timing, is it the boyfriend, should i keep texting her? |
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| Author: | Warped Mindless [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 8:48 pm ] |
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Quote: . She was opening up telling me about her family, how her parents are divorced etc so i figured i had built enough comfort. She was literally pulling me onto the dance floor all night the only mistake i might have made was leaving her alone a couple of times during the night.
You were on the dance floor. You should have been sexually escalating and went for the kiss there. Quote: Tried a compliance test after taking her home when we were alone after she mentioned how my friend was making out with his girlfriend in the backseat as we drove home
You waited way to long. Should have escalated and went for it on the dance floor or very least back at the dance.Quote: She had her arms crossed that was the first bad sign but i decided to just ASK (stupid right) and she says she cant because she has a boyfriend, so i tell her that i'm not the jealous type and she says shes just faithful.
Yeah, don't ask. You waited to long anyways.Anyways, no big deal. One chick out of 4 billion. Live and learn. |
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| Author: | charblad [ Mon Sep 12, 2011 3:16 am ] |
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If her bf is mentioned more than once you screwed up, cuz she either really has one or she really hates you. Move on and learn |
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| Author: | Warped Mindless [ Mon Sep 12, 2011 3:40 am ] |
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Quote: If her bf is mentioned more than once you screwed up, cuz she either really has one or she really hates you. Move on and learn
Not always and it also depends on the context.Also, a lot of times a girl will talk about her BF to try and make you jealous. Sort of their silly version of social proof. If she talks about things she does with her bf, shes just (most of the time) trying to make you jealous. "We went to the movies then he took me ice skating" ect... If she talks about emotions he makes her feel, shes really into him. "he makes me have such amazing feelings and I always feel so safe around him." ect... |
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